Diary of a Word Nerd

Three Fun Books To Get You Through March

Posted on March 4, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 3 Comments

It was 60 degrees and sunny yesterday; today the wind blows snow flakes against my windows. March is my toughest month. I’m done with winter, but it’s still has a few punches for me. As the last gray days drag on, I need funny reading material to keep my spirits up. I’m thinking perhaps you do too, so here are three book recommendations to help you laugh your way into April.

What Alice Forgot by Liane Moriarty

Review by Amy Makechnie of Maisymak. Find her on Twitter and Facebook

This book came at the perfect time: the middle of winter in New Hampshire. Alice is twenty-nine, crazy in love with her husband, and pregnant with her first child. At least she thinks that’s her life. In reality, she’s suffered a head injury at the gym (what? she hates going to gym!) and can’t remember the last ten years of her life. She’s getting divorced, her sister won’t talk to her, she has three kids (they don’t even look familiar; they’re so…needy!), and her formerly beloved husband despises her. What’s happened in the last ten years? How did Alice become so insufferable? And most importantly, can she start over? I loved this book! It made me laugh out loud but also forced me examine my own marriage and family: will I like where it ends up in ten years? (side note…SOON TO BE A MAJOR MOTION PICTURE FROM THE DIRECTOR OF THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA)

This is Where I Leave You by Jonathan Tropper

Review by Dana Hemelt of Kiss My List. Find her on Twitter and Facebook

Things are not going well for Judd Foxman; his wife’s affair has ended their marriage and his father just died. Dear old Dad’s final request was that the entire family spend seven days sitting shiva after the funeral. Together. In the same house.

It doesn’t sound funny, I know. But I laughed out loud (the first of many times) during the scene when Judd walked in on his wife and her lover…Tropper imbues humor in the most unlikely places. A week of the dysfunctional Foxman family is illuminating, raw, real and amusing. As I was reading, I thought this novel would adapt wonderfully into a movie, and it has. The book is always better, though – and this one is no exception.

The Undomestic Goddess by Sophia Kinsella

Review by Valerie Rutledge of Peaceful Promises. Find her on Facebook

I’ve been looking for a month or so now for another title by Sophie Kinsella and the library has let me down so I ended up with The Undomestic Goddess on a whim.

Samantha is a force to be reckoned with in a predominantly testosterone driven field. She’s young, sharp and on the fast track to being the youngest partner in her upscale law firm in London. Until she makes one, very costly, mistake. Rather than face the music, she runs away, literally.

Winding up on a stranger’s doorstep, a case of mistaken identity lands her in job unlike any she’s ever known, a housekeeper of a countryside estate. Faking her way through the day, with a little help from the gardner, she slowly adjusts to this new pace of life. Little does she know she’s one curtsy away from yet another turn of events.

While I couldn’t exactly relate to the pull of the corporate world, I found her struggle between what she’s always done and what lies before her to be something with which most women can empathize. Lovable characters along with just the right mix of intrigue, romance & reality made this a quick, easy read on a cold, do-nothing day.

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Can you add a funny read to this list? I’d love to hear about it!

Thanks,

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Different Names for Vegetarians

Posted on March 2, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 15 Comments

Daughter, motivated by health and moral issues, recently decided to go vegetarian. She’s busy pinning recipes, and now I have things like lentils and black rice in my pantry. I’m all for healthy eating and am happy to add more plant-based recipes to our dining repertoire. Hubby and I just want to make sure she’s getting all the nutrients she needs, which prompted research, which resulted in a discovery of some very interesting words to describe the many different types of vegetarians.

Yes, different types. At least seven. The Word Nerd is here to explain them to you.

If you like learning about interesting words, join the Wondrous Words Wednesday meme at Bermuda Onion. Bloggers post about new and interesting words, and you can learn along with them.

Types of Vegetarians

Turns out, there are different “levels” of vegetarians, and the names for each level describe what foods each type consumes. With a little knowledge of word roots, these titles make good sense. So, here we go, from “most strict” to “least strict”.

Vegans do not use or consume any animal products or by-products. This includes, obviously, meat and fish, but also dairy, eggs, honey, silk, leather, or wool.
Lacto-vegetarians do not eat meat, fish, or eggs, but they do eat dairy. “Lacto” usually describes something having to do with milk.
Ovo-vegetarians do not eat meat, fish, or dairy, but they do consume eggs. “Ovo” means egg.
Lacto-Ovo vegetarians do not eat meat or fish, but they do consume eggs and dairy. In other words, they, like Phoebe from Friends, do not eat “anything with a face”. Daughter currently subscribes to this category of diet.
Pescaterians do not eat meat or fowl but will eat fish. This diet isn’t technically vegetarian; along with the next two categories, it is considered “semi-vegetarian.” Pesce is the Italian word for fish; piscis means fish in Latin.
Pollotarians consume poultry and fowl but not red or white meat or fish. “Pollo” is the Spanish word for chicken.
Flexitarians eat mostly plant-based foods but occasionally consume meat, fish, or fowl. It’s a flexible approach to a vegetarian diet. I could fit in this category.

This is quinoa, a complete protein grain that is a lovely addition to any vegetarian diet.

Other Vegetarian Word Nerd Facts

The term vegetarian was first coined in 1839. “Fruititarian” turned up in 1893.
In 1944, vegetarians who consume no animal or dairy products started calling themselves “vegans”.

Thanks to Merriam-Webster and Vegetarian Nation for information.

Word Nerd Workout

Did you know about these differences between vegetarians? Can you share any other interesting “diet inspired” words?

Thanks for adding to the discussion!

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Books Turned Into Movies for 2016

Posted on February 26, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 3 Comments

Books have inspired many of the movies of 2016. (Of course they have, because books are awesome!) Since I’m a huge advocate of the “read the book before you see the movie” approach to life, here are some quick Word Nerd notes on upcoming films.

Upcoming Releases

Allegiant (March 18, 2016)

The last installment of the dystopian Divergent series, Allegiant wraps up the story of Tris, the Divergent heroine trying to save a world torn apart by competing factions. I haven’t read the book yet; most people I know don’t like it, mainly because of the ending (I won’t give it away) and the fact that although most of the series is in Tris’s point of view, Allegiant shifts narration between Tris and Tobias.

The trailers suggest that the film deviates significantly from the book. Although daughter, a proud member of the Divergent fandom, scoffs at the previews, when I asked if she wanted to see the movie, she said, “Heck, yeah. You can never have too much Theo James.”

I tend to agree. 😉

The Jungle Book (April 15, 2016)

According to Common Sense Media, this version of The Jungle Book is “less whimsical and musical” than Disney’s cartoon. The film combines animation and live action to present more characters and themes from Rudyard Kipling’s short story collection.

Me Before You (June 3, 2016)

I loved Me Before You, a thoughtful, bittersweet story about a paralyzed young man contemplating assisted suicide. Author Jojo Moyes does a great job of exploring the many facets of this complicated and controversial issue; I hope the movie does so as well. I’m surprised it’s targeted at teens. The main characters are in their 20s and struggling with adult issues. I’ll encourage my kids to read and discuss before they see. See my review of Me Before You.

The Girl on the Train (October 7, 2016)

This is another thriller along the lines of Gone Girl. It involves marriage, murder, and lots of lies. I didn’t like the book, mostly because of one pathetic character that dominates the narration, and I probably won’t bother with the movie, but if you’re a fan of thrillers, you might want to check it out. See my review of The Girl on the Train.

Fantastical Books and Where To Find Them (November 18, 2016)

I’ve heard rumor from my sixth grade son that J.K. Rowling has a new book out. Perhaps this is where the buzz originated. Rowling released Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them, a textbook on beasts and dragons that Harry Potter and his peers would have read at Hogwarts. Rowling wrote a story for the film, which features Newt Scamanders, the author of the textbook, and his escapades in the secret world of magic in New York City several decades before Harry arrived at Hogwarts. Sounds like fun to me!

Already Out There

The Fifth Wave (released in January 2016)

Many people have recommended this sci-fi adventure which chronicles the aftermath of an alien invasion. I’m not big on sci-fi, but this is so popular, I think I’ll at least read the book and pass it along to my teens.

Pride and Prejudice and Zombies (released in February 2016)

No self-respecting Austen fan would dare to give this abomination of a movie their precious attention. The fact that the book made it to the big screen disheartens me almost as much as the fact that Donald Trump is still a front-runner in the Republican primaries.

Have you read any of these books? Do you plan to see the movies?

Thanks for sharing!

Improving vocabulary

What Is A Cabal?

Posted on February 24, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 14 Comments

When reading a review of the latest BBC Sherlock episode, I came across a new word: cabal. I’m sure Sherlock would know this word; I’ve gotta catch up!

If you like learning new words too, visit Kathy’s Wondrous Words Wednesday meme at Bermuda Onion. Bloggers share new and interesting words here; feel free to add your own post.

Here’s some context for cabal from the review:

It turns out the real culprit isn’t those meddling kids but instead a cabal with aims sympathetic to modern tastes.

Cabal \kǝ-’bal\ noun from French cabale, cabala meaning intrigue

A number of persons secretly united to bring about an overturn or usurpation, especially in public affairs
The intrigues of such a group
Synonym: plot
Verb: to unite into a cabal

Word Nerd Workout

Use cabal in a sentence. Here’s mine:

The reporter uncovered a cabal in the town council plotting to shift funds toward the development of a new shopping center that would benefit a local, politically connected businessman.

Gotta love small town politics. 😉

Thanks for getting nerdy with me today!

Improving grammar

I Feel Bad vs. I Feel Badly

Posted on February 19, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 9 Comments

Since my post from last week (I Am Well vs. I Am Good) got such a great response, I’m going to tackle another adverb misconception. Once again, linking verbs are causing some confusion.

Have you ever heard someone say “I feel badly”? For example, “I feel badly that Cindy lost her dog.” I’m here, with help from Grammar Girl, to show that even though this is a nice sentiment, it’s not correct grammar.

The difference between action verbs and linking verbs.

To understand why you should say “I feel bad” for Cindy because she lost her dog, you need to know the difference between action and linking verbs.

Action verbs show action.

The dog smells his dinner. (The dog is sniffing his food.)
May I feel your sweater? (I want to touch the sweater with my fingers.)
The girl runs by every night. (The girl moves quickly down the street each night.)

Linking verbs show states of being or emotion. They link a subject to an adjective.

I am tired.
I feel sad.
She looks so happy!

Sense verbs (to taste, to feel, to smell, to hear) can be action verbs or linking verbs.

You can test to see if a sense verb is an action verb or a linking verb by replacing a form of “to be” for the verb in question. In most cases, any form of “to be” (am, are, was, is) will be a linking verb.

The soup smells good. —> The soup is good.
- The substitution works, and we know “smells” is a linking verb and good describes the state of the soup. The soup isn’t actually smelling anything.
The dog smells the skunk. —> The dog is the skunk.
- The substitution doesn’t work; a dog isn’t a skunk. Here, we know that the verb is an action verb; the dog is actively smelling something.

Let’s try this with the “I feel bad” dilemma.

I feel bad that you lost your dog. —> I am bad that you lost your dog.
The substitution sounds a little funny, but we know that “bad” is describing an emotion or state of being. “Bad” is a predicate adjective describing “I”, and we understand that “I” feel sympathy for Cindy.

In “I feel badly” “badly” is an adverb describing the action verb “feel”. “I feel badly” indicates that “I” has a hard time physically exploring by touch. Usually, when people say, “I feel badly”, they aren’t trying to communicate that they are clumsy with their fingers. They are trying to express an emotion.

I would "feel bad" if I lost this dog. (Maybe... he's kinda high maintenance.) — I would “feel bad” if I lost this dog. (Maybe… he’s kinda high maintenance.)

Word Nerd Workout

Those “sense” verbs are tricky! Test your Word Nerd prowess and decide if the verbs in the following examples are linking or action verbs.

Roxie smells the treats in your pocket.
I feel energetic this morning!
You look sleepy today.
Those shoes smell bad.

Thanks for getting nerdy with me today!

Who I Am

Who I Am Project: He Loves Me

Posted on February 16, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 14 Comments

This is the February installment of the Who I Am Project, which prompted participants to describe people who we love and who love us. For more on the Who I Am Project, visit Dana at Kissmylist.com.

In my marriage, two roles play out. One of us is confident, logical, unflappable. The other is creative, sensitive, and most definitely flappable.

Guess which one I am?

In the past 26 years I’ve known my husband, I’ve seen him lose it on exactly three occasions.

The wallpaper incident. It was the “BC” era (before children) of marriage, the med school years. We were living in and renovating an older townhouse in Richmond. Once, when we were hanging wallpaper in the front room of the townhouse, all of the cutting, soaking, folding, and hanging sent him over the edge. Maybe it was the glue.
The first night home with the first-born. Hubby took over baby duty that night so I could get a much-needed nap. Sometime around 2:30 am, he appeared bedside, holding out a screaming bundle of flailing limbs. “I can’t do this anymore.” Literally.
The devastating news. When husband got word that a beloved partner and mentor in his medical practice had been diagnosed with cancer, he had to leave the room, requesting time to himself.

On the flip side, Mr. Wonderful has seen me seriously lose it at least three times EVERY YEAR. During med school, my breakdowns usually came the night before his big exams. (Sorry honey!)

A Meghan Trainor lyric comes to mind…

You’ve gotta know how to treat me like a lady, even when I’m acting crazy, tell me everything’s all right.

God has given me many blessings in this life, but my husband is truly His greatest gift. Mr. Wonderful doesn’t give me flowers (any more), nor does he buy fancy gifts. But he did sit through all the Twilight movies with me, and he has a knack for diffusing tense situations with his wit. His greatest “love language” is his ability to share words of affirmation and support.

When I, the English major, decided to quit teaching and pursue PT school, even though my job was our only source of income during his medical training, he supported me.
When I, the English major, had to take five science and math classes to apply to PT school, he demonstrated outstanding patience and ability to tutor, especially when I crammed a year’s worth of physics into a nine week summer course. We endured well over the annual quota of breakdowns during that challenge.
When I spent my mother’s last night on this earth next to her bed, holding her hand, he sat beside me and rubbed my back. All night.
When I shared that I wanted to write a book and start a blog, he totally backed me up, even though he hates writing.

Spending this many years under Mr. Wonderful’s calm influence has made me into a better person. I’m less reactive. I pause and try to communicate instead of immediately switching to “freak out status”. Of course, sleep deprivation and the behavior of children still hold sway…

I’d like to think I’ve rubbed off on him a bit. Maybe, under my influence, he’s more sensitive and introspective. But, that’s his story to tell, not mine. 😉

How has a relationship in your life made you a better person?

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