Diary of a Word Nerd

What Is a Nimbus?

Posted on March 23, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 6 Comments

I’m currently reading Orphan Train, by Christina Baker Kline, a lovely novel that alternates between the present and the early 20th century and combines interesting historical fiction with the theme of searching for a sense of family. It came highly recommended, and I’m glad I’m reading it.

My wondrous word for today comes from this quote from Orphan Train:

I follow her down the hall and through the door into a parlor, where a plump, bosomy woman with a nimbus of downy gray hair is sitting on a rose velvet sofa next to a glowing fire.

I always thought a nimbus was someone foolish, like a nincompoop. I think I got that from a cartoon of my childhood. Clearly, that doesn’t work here.

If you like to explore the meanings of new words, visit the Wondrous Words Wednesday meme, hosted by Kathy of Bermuda Onion.

Here’s what you need to know about nimbus:

nimbus \ˈnim-bəs\ noun, from the Latin for rainstorm or cloud; probably akin to Latin nebula cloud

a : a luminous vapor, cloud, or atmosphere about a god or goddess when on earth
b : a cloud or atmosphere (as of romance) about a person or thing
an indication (as a circle) of radiant light or glory about the head of a drawn or sculptured divinity, saint, or sovereign
a : a rain cloud
b : thunderhead; also : cumulus

From Merriam-Webster

Here’s a picture of a painting of Jesus with a nimbus around his head to signify his divinity:

Photo Credit: Tamara Aguilar via Flickr CC-BY

Word Nerd Workout

First, have any of you heard of my definition of nimbus (someone silly or foolish?) Second, can you use nimbus in a sentence? Here’s my try:

After the phone call from Trevor, Katrina spent the evening walking around in a nimbus of bliss and was oblivious to her brother’s taunts.

Good luck, and thanks for getting nerdy with me.

Improving grammar

Is Alot a Word?

Posted on March 18, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 7 Comments

A discussion with hubby prompted this question: Is alot a word? He swears he’s seen it in published pieces.

Here’s the short answer: no. If you try to look up “alot” in the dictionary, you’ll get nothing. The proper way to say that a large bunch of something exists is to say “a lot.” So, starting now, strike it out of your blog posts and school papers. “Alot” doesn’t exist.

Along the same lines, alright isn’t necessarily proper either. According to Merriam-Webster, alright means all right, and but “some critics have insisted that all right is all wrong”. 🙂 It’s used more often in informal writing and fiction. So, use at your own risk.

And finally, awhile is another “a-word” surrounded by confusion and controversy. As I related in my post on awhile, there are three things to consider when using awhile vs a while:

A while is a noun (hint: it’s got the article “a” in front of it); it suggests a specific period of time. If you can replace “awhile” with “a week”, then you should use “a while”. Example: It’s been a while since I’ve had a good burger.
Awhile means “for a time”, and it’s an adverb. You should be able to replace “awhile” with another adverb, like “quickly”. Example: She ran awhile.
If a while is used in a prepositional phrase, as in, “She ran for a while,” you use “a while” because the object of a preposition must be a noun, not an adverb (“awhile”).

Are there any other “a-words” that give you trouble? How about other words that have been contracted but perhaps shouldn’t be? I’d love some fodder for future posts.

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

Who I Am

Who I Am: Running is My Valium

Posted on March 15, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 17 Comments

This is my third post for the Who I Am project, a year-long writing adventure focusing on all the little things that make me, me. This month’s prompt: habits.

I’m gonna admit something embarrassing: I was a pudgy kid.

I liked to play outside, but I also liked to eat. And watch re-runs of Happy Days and Welcome Back, Kotter every day after school. Eventually, those habits left a mark around my middle, and Mom had to order “pretty plus” sizes for me from the Sears catalog.

Fortunately, before my teenage years hit, I learned to balance these indulgent habits with some healthier ones. Several influences conspired to create this shift:

First, in sixth grade I started playing soccer and realized I liked running, sports, and competition. One of my few good memories from middle school comes from Presidential Physical Fitness testing in seventh grade, when we had to run the 600 (the 1980’s version of the mile). I was in third place on the final stretch and closing in on the boy in second. He glanced back at me and said, “Yikes! It’s a girl!” The fear in his eyes was exhilarating. My love of running began.
Second, I developed an interest in boys, which prompted an interest in my appearance, which prompted a not entirely healthy obsession with calories consumed and calories burned. By eighth grade, I’d shed my “pretty plus pounds”. I’m determined to never get them back.
Third, I discovered the power of endorphins. Here’s what they do: make you feel awesome! My mom had a chronic illness which brought a fair amount of tension into our family life. I learned that I could escape the stressful atmosphere when I went outside to run or bike, and that the “feel-goodness” of my activity lasted for a few hours.

And so a habit was born.

Thirty years later, I still exercise to manage my weight and my stress. Yes, I have four children, and running is my Valium. The kids and hubby know: when Mom is cranky, send her out for a run. I don’t need a race to motivate me, although they are fun. I don’t need a running partner to keep me accountable, although a long run is so much more therapeutic when swapping rants with a good friend. Unfortunately, every friend I’ve ever run with has moved away or started to work full-time, so I’m currently hesitant to enlist running companionship. But, I know someone training for her first 5K, and, my runner’s enthusiasm is kicking in…

See? Don't all those runners look happy? — See? Don’t all those runners look happy?

My habit has a positive focus, fitness and health, but I can’t deny that two negative emotions also drive me: the fear of gaining weight and the fear of poor health. Although I’ve got 45 years of wisdom to my name, I still have issues with body image. When I tell my daughter, “Your body is strong and beautiful and you can do awesome things with it, so enjoy it!” I’m speaking to both of us. Also, I spent my formative years watching my mother’s body deteriorate, and it scared me. I exercise to stay strong and functional for as long as I can. Aging is inevitable, poor health doesn’t have to be. (Not that Mom could do anything to prevent her illness, but it doesn’t hurt to try…)

As my Oma (grandmother) always said, “It’s a great life, if you don’t weaken.”

What is a habit defines you, and when did you start practicing it? I’d love to know more about who you are…

See what others have to say about quirks and habits via the Who I Am project, hosted by Dana and Bev.

Thanks for stopping by!

Awesome Young Adult Books/Book reviews/Favorite Authors

Why You Should Read Fangirl

Posted on March 11, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 5 Comments

I just finished listening to Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell, and I liked it even better than Eleanor and Park, which I raved about in my review. Fangirl could be considered Young Adult or New Adult fiction since its main character is a college freshman struggling to overcome her social ineptness in her first year at the University of Nebraska.

Premise

Cath is an introvert who retreats into the fandom of Simon Snow (a fictional equivalent of Harry Potter) when her real life gets too difficult. She and her identical twin sister Wren grew up reading, and loving, the Simon Snow books and writing fan fiction that earns them some online popularity. But when the girls go to college, Wren wants to start a new life, unattached to her twin, and Cath finds herself floundering outside of her comfort zone. She’s pretty sure her roommate hates her. She can’t believe how much her roommate’s boyfriend smiles. And, there’s this cute guy in her fiction writing class who likes collaborating with her, but never offers to walk her home after their late night writing sessions in the stacks.

This is a great novel about facing fears and shattering self-imposed boundaries.

What I liked

I could relate to so many of Cath’s issues: feeling socially awkward, wondering how to deal with grown up guys, facing deep-seated family conflict. I especially enjoyed Cath’s description of her writing process and all the joys and frustrations that come with trying to get the right words to tell a story.

Rainbow Rowell has particular skill in writing fresh, vivid descriptions of people and emotions. One of the reasons Cath likes Levi, her roommate’s boyfriend, is that he has “10,000 different smiles.” And on a day when Levi is uncharacteristically unfriendly, she says he’s “thirty degrees lower than normal Levi.”

The characters often exchange funny quips, but the humor is balanced with thoughtful treatment of serious issues like abandonment and mental illness.

The chapters of Cath’s story are interspersed with snippets from either the “real” Simon Snow books or from Cath’s Fan Fic, and I had fun trying to figure out what Ms. Rowell wanted to accomplish with those interludes.

What I didn’t like

Not much.

Recommendation

This is a great book for older teens who like realistic fiction or for adults who don’t mind a good college story. Rebecca Lowman, who read Eleanor’s chapters in Eleanor and Park, narrates this audio book as well. She does a great job in both. I highly recommend the audio version.

Notes on content

Characters consume alcohol, but they also suffer the effects of excessive drinking. (Cath’s sister ends up in the hospital with alcohol poisoning.) There are a few “kissy” scenes, and the characters discuss having sex. In Cath’s Fan Fic, the main characters, and arch enemies, of the Simon Snow series have a homosexual relationship. But in the Fan Fic and the main story, nothing explicit ever happens between characters. Some language.

Have you read this or any of Rainbow Rowell’s books? What did you think?
Thanks for stopping by!

Favorite Characters/How to encourage reading/Improving vocabulary

Vocab Inspired By Leo DiCaprio: Revenant

Posted on March 9, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 13 Comments

I first “met” Leonardo DiCaprio when I watched What’s Eating Gilbert Grape way back in 1994. He played “Arnie” with such realistic characterization that I was smitten, even though his face was smeared with dirt for half the movie.

At the time, all of America was raving about Forrest Gump, but I was disturbed that in many movies about people with disabilities, the character with a disability always had some kind of “super power” to make him more palatable. Rainman was exceptionally good at math, if not social skills. And “Forrest” could run so fast, he saved Lieutenant Dan’s life. I taught students with disabilities; there were no superheroes in my classroom, just beautiful kids whose minds worked differently and who struggled with extremely difficult circumstances.

Like the kids I knew, Arnie didn’t have any super powers. He had mental retardation, and What’s Eating Gilbert Grape showed with unrelenting honesty the challenge of caring for a person with disabilities. Leo did a great job of portraying mental retardation and was rewarded with an Oscar nomination. Many nominations and years later, he finally got the trophy for Best Actor for 2015’s The Revenant, a survival story about a fur trader attacked by a bear and left for dead by his companions.

I didn’t know what a “revenant” was and had to look it up. If you like learning about new words, join the Wondrous Words Wednesday meme hosted by Kathy at Bermuda Onion.

revenant \rev·e·nant\ adjective, from the French revenir, to return

one that returns after death or a long absence (Merriam-Webster)

And here, in a fan girl tribute to my favorite actor, are some movie posters from Leo’s filmography. Sadly, many of his movies I will never see because this girl doesn’t do scary or brutal violence. (Read: No Shutter Island or Gangs of New York for the Word Nerd.)

Word Nerd Workout

Can you share some unusual vocab you learned from a movie? Or, for more fun, can you guess what husband calls Leonardo DiCaprio? (Hint: he’s not fond of my adoration for the actor, and his name rhymes with the original. Change one letter in the first name and add one letter to the second.)

Thanks for playing!

Book reviews

Three Fun Books To Get You Through March

Posted on March 4, 2016 by Julia Tomiak / 3 Comments

It was 60 degrees and sunny yesterday; today the wind blows snow flakes against my windows. March is my toughest month. I’m done with winter, but it’s still has a few punches for me. As the last gray days drag on, I need funny reading material to keep my spirits up. I’m thinking perhaps you do too, so here are three book recommendations to help you laugh your way into April.

What Alice Forgot by Liane Moriarty

Review by Amy Makechnie of Maisymak. Find her on Twitter and Facebook

This book came at the perfect time: the middle of winter in New Hampshire. Alice is twenty-nine, crazy in love with her husband, and pregnant with her first child. At least she thinks that’s her life. In reality, she’s suffered a head injury at the gym (what? she hates going to gym!) and can’t remember the last ten years of her life. She’s getting divorced, her sister won’t talk to her, she has three kids (they don’t even look familiar; they’re so…needy!), and her formerly beloved husband despises her. What’s happened in the last ten years? How did Alice become so insufferable? And most importantly, can she start over? I loved this book! It made me laugh out loud but also forced me examine my own marriage and family: will I like where it ends up in ten years? (side note…SOON TO BE A MAJOR MOTION PICTURE FROM THE DIRECTOR OF THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA)

This is Where I Leave You by Jonathan Tropper

Review by Dana Hemelt of Kiss My List. Find her on Twitter and Facebook

Things are not going well for Judd Foxman; his wife’s affair has ended their marriage and his father just died. Dear old Dad’s final request was that the entire family spend seven days sitting shiva after the funeral. Together. In the same house.

It doesn’t sound funny, I know. But I laughed out loud (the first of many times) during the scene when Judd walked in on his wife and her lover…Tropper imbues humor in the most unlikely places. A week of the dysfunctional Foxman family is illuminating, raw, real and amusing. As I was reading, I thought this novel would adapt wonderfully into a movie, and it has. The book is always better, though – and this one is no exception.

The Undomestic Goddess by Sophia Kinsella

Review by Valerie Rutledge of Peaceful Promises. Find her on Facebook

I’ve been looking for a month or so now for another title by Sophie Kinsella and the library has let me down so I ended up with The Undomestic Goddess on a whim.

Samantha is a force to be reckoned with in a predominantly testosterone driven field. She’s young, sharp and on the fast track to being the youngest partner in her upscale law firm in London. Until she makes one, very costly, mistake. Rather than face the music, she runs away, literally.

Winding up on a stranger’s doorstep, a case of mistaken identity lands her in job unlike any she’s ever known, a housekeeper of a countryside estate. Faking her way through the day, with a little help from the gardner, she slowly adjusts to this new pace of life. Little does she know she’s one curtsy away from yet another turn of events.

While I couldn’t exactly relate to the pull of the corporate world, I found her struggle between what she’s always done and what lies before her to be something with which most women can empathize. Lovable characters along with just the right mix of intrigue, romance & reality made this a quick, easy read on a cold, do-nothing day.

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Can you add a funny read to this list? I’d love to hear about it!

Thanks,