A book to help you escape

One of Us Is Lying cover

This week was rough. The frigid temps and gray sky drained my energy, and I had a hard time lifting myself up. Things that helped me manage my mood, and I highly recommend, include: Yoga with Adrienne, practicing a musical instrument, and trading my spiraling thoughts for a good story. And that story was the YA whodunit, One of Us is Lying, by Karen McManus.

Premise

One of Us is Lying opens with five students showing up for detention under suspect circumstances; only four of them leave alive. Those four become the prime suspects in the murder of their classmate, Simon, the creator of a malicious gossip app. All of them have reason to hate Simon, and all of them have something to hide. There’s Bronwyn, the super student who never breaks the rules; Nate, who already has a record for selling drugs; Addy, the gorgeous Homecoming princess with the perfect boyfriend; and Cooper, the all-star baseball player being recruited by college and professional coaches. All four swear they had nothing to do with Simon’s murder, but the police think otherwise, and they must race to prove their innocence before one or all of them end up in jail. Unless, of course, one of them in lying.

What I liked

One of Us Is Lying cover

One of Us is Lying is told through four alternating points of view: Bronwyn, Nate, Addy, and Cooper. McManus does an excellent job of developing each character and his or her voice, and she uses those alternating views to move the plot and build suspense. I could relate best to Bronwyn, the brain, but I found all four characters compelling.

One of Us is Lying breaks down the social framework of high school, and the characters in the book grow to understand each other beyond stereotype and rumor. It also explores the danger of social media and the online lives teens live today, as well as unhealthy dating relationships and the toxic focus on appearance and success that our culture perpetuates.

One of Us Is Lying presents not only an interesting mystery, but also a thoughtful commentary on the social pressures teens must navigate today.

What I didn’t like

I listened to the audio book, and all of the readers did a great job, except Cooper is supposed to have a southern twang that gets worse when he is nervous. The performers in the audio book did not consistently portray Cooper’s accent, and I found the entire notion of a drawl that comes and goes unrealistic. I live in the heart of southern drawl – the speed, semantics, and syntax of speech is consistent ’round here. 😉

Also, while I appreciate the toxic social trends McManus explores in her novel, I wonder if centering a book around harmful behavior doesn’t reinforce the behavior. There is a thin line between bringing attention and awareness to an issue and glorifying it. However, McManus handles the topics with nuance and sensitivity, leaving us with a thought provoking and satisfying story.

Recommendation

If you need a good escape read to help you through the winter blues, or anytime, try One of Us Is Lying. Excellent plot, pace, and four characters you can pull for. 😉

Can you recommend another great escape book? Please do so in the comments!

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

Books to help you love yourself

Love yourself quote

Valentine’s Day approaches, and with it, in our house at least, heart shaped sugar cookies with sweet pink frosting and Oreo cookie truffles. Then, shortly after, the “detox” of Lent begins. No dessert for six weeks!

Whether or not you have a significant other to shower with sweet treats or overpriced cards this Valentine’s Day (seriously, make your own!), I encourage you to use this “Hallmark holiday” as a reminder to embrace love, for yourself and the world around you. We live in challenging times, and this silly pink day, in the darkness of February, is a great excuse to love yourself and extend love to those around you – including people you don’t know or understand.

Since it’s gray outside, and therefore perfect reading weather, here are a few books I recommend to help you love yourself. If you can add any others, please do so in the comments!

  • Rising Strong, by Brene Brown
  • The Gifts of Imperfection, by Brene Brown
  • Girl, Wash Your Face, by Rachel Hollis
  • Becoming, by Michelle Obama
  • The Year of Yes, by Shonda Rhimes
  • Tell Me More, by Kelly Corrigan
  • Yes, Please, by Amy Poehler

Thanks for getting inspired with me!

Why you must read Stamped from the Beginning

Book review of Stamped from the Beginning

The events of last summer, including the shooting of George Floyd and the small #BLM protest I participated in, inspired me to do more reading about racism and more reading of books written by people of color.

Cover of Stamped by Ibram Kendi

I have finally finished the most daunting book from my self curated reading list, the 592 page Stamped from the Beginning: The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America by Ibram X. Kendi. When Kendi says definitive history, he isn’t joking. In Stamped, Kendi, a scholar and author who currently directs the Boston University Center for Antiracist Research, explores racist theories and policies and how they have affected African Americans since the slave trade first gained popularity way back in the 1400s.

What I liked

Kendi covers historical information I either missed or forgot or was never given in school. He describes things I’d never heard of before, such as the Biblical justification of slavery known as “the curse of Ham” or the fact that Ronald Reagan launched his War on Drugs in the 1980s at a time when drug crime was actually quite low. He provides context around key events of American history, such as the Civil War, that gave me a better understanding of our country’s complicated relationship with racism.

Also, now I know who Angela Davis is.

Throughout the book, Kendi presents the responses of assimilationists, segregationalists, and antiracists to events in American political life, and how those responses affected policy and the lives of African Americans.

Although Kendi’s opinion clearly comes through in the book, this is not an opinion piece. Kendi includes no less than 45 pages of notes and references in the back of his book, and he obviously did the exhaustive research necessary to produce a “definitive history.”

What I didn’t like

Stamped from the Beginning is heavy, physically and intellectually. It requires a hearty commitment to read and digest all of the material it presents. Also, sometimes I found Kendi’s language confusing. He tends to use long sentences with complicated syntax, and on several occasions, I had to reread sections to understand what he was trying to say.

Recommendation

Everyone needs to explore and better understand the complicated history of racist ideas and policies that have affected America since its inception. I strongly encourage you to take a crack at Stamped from the Beginning. If 500 pages is too daunting, check out the YA remix of Stamped that Kendi wrote with the amazing and award winning kid lit author Jason Reynolds. It’s called Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You. My friend Dana reviewed it last year and called it “an accessible, engaging narrative that I believe every American teen and adult should read.”

Have you read Stamped or its YA remix? What did you think? What other books about racism can you recommend?

Happy Black History Month, and thanks for getting nerdy with me!

The Word Nerd is reading…

  • Just read: All American Boys by Jason Reynolds, Such a Fun Age by Kiley Reid
  • Currently reading: Piecing Me Together by Renee Watson
  • Currently listening to: One of Us is Lying by Karen M. McManus and Rising Strong by Brene Brown.

Sunday Inspiration

I’m going to steal a trick from my friend Amy and offer you some Sunday inspiration. Snow frosts the tree limbs and evergreen leaves outside my window, and the crisp winter coating hides the brown grass and helps me forget, temporarily, the challenges of life.

In a recent blog post at her amazing site Helping Writers Become Authors, K.M. Weiland shared some very inspiring words from Madeline L’Engle’s book Walking on Water: Reflections on Faith and Art:

“Create” is my word for the year of 2021, as I still have not made creating a big enough priority in my life. I plan to create, and move toward wholeness, this Sunday. Will you?

Thanks for getting inspired with me!

What does populism mean?

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If I gave you two minutes to explain populism, what would you say?

Yeah, up until this week, I didn’t understand populism either. I’m no political science expert, but after reading about the subject, I have better understanding of populism and the controversy around it. To follow up on my post about the power of words, I’d like to try and explain this charged and complicated word.

A vague term

Populism first showed up in America in the late 1800s, when people frustrated with Big Business and the government formed the Populist Party. Its platform called for more economic regulations, nationalized railroads, and directly elected senators. The party had some success, but never cracked our two party system, and “populism” remained largely a term discussed by academics.

Starting in 2016, “populism” gained popularity as the media claimed that Brexit, the 2016 U.S. Presidential Election, and Viktor Obrbans’ takeover of Hungary showed a rise in worldwide populism. However, even though we are hearing the word more, it usually doesn’t come with a definition, so we are left with a vague term often used to evoke negative feelings.

Populism is frequently associated with charismatic politicians who appeal to the resentment of the “common man” and make promises to end their struggle. Mainstream media and politicians apply the term to political movements that don’t fit the mainstream. Populist leaders are characterized as using highly emotional and simplistic rhetoric and backing opportunistic policies to win support of voters. But couldn’t this last sentence apply to many politicians? And therein lies the problem of using a broad term.

Trying to define populism

In 2004, Dutch political scientist Cas Mudde published “The Populist Zeitgeist”, a paper explaining the two core values of populism. 1) Society exists in a tense, moral division between “the people” (who are good) and “the elite” (who are corrupt and out of touch). 2) Politics should represent the “general will” of the people, a common sense set of ideals shared by “ordinary people.”

This definition, used widely by journalists, is often referred to as the “thin ideology definition” because it rests on those two basic tenets. Mudde asserts that populism, because it is a thin ideology, often partners with another ideology to give it more depth. This explains why politicians as vastly different as Donald Trump and Bernie Sanders can both be considered populist. Each could be said to champion the will of “the people” over the self-serving “establishment. “

Different forms of populism dictate who belongs in the morally divided groups. “The people” can be made up of anything from an ethnic group feeling threatened or people facing economic hardship. For example, in right wing populism, “the people” are often those who resent an underclass and the elites who favor that underclass with policies to keep power away from “real people.”

However, some academics see populism as a political style, not a value based ideology. They argue that conflict is inherent in political life, and there will always be a “we” and a “they”. In democracy, the status quo shifts as people unite to create change. What we should expect as normal fluctuation often looks like populism, and therefore characterizing populism as negative can stifle the normal democratic process. Populism often raises valid questions about the status quo, but since many recent successful populist movements have come from the far right, populism has gotten a bad name.

Misconceptions about populism

Some common misconceptions about populism include:

  • any politician citing “the will of the people” is populist
  • populism and nationalism/ nativism (policies advocating ethnic purity) are always linked
  • anyone who deviates from the mainstream is populist

Why populism exists

Many who study politics believe that populism exists because reality doesn’t match the shining ideals of a government built by and for the people. As political parties have converged in recent years, there is a smaller range of options for representation, and people cannot identify with the people making policy decisions. Says Peter C. Baker in his article “We the people: the battle to define populism”,

It finds life in the cracks – or more lately, the chasms – between democracy’s promises and the impossibility of their full, permanent realisation.

Sounds to me like populism, as an ideology or a political style, will be around for a while. We should probably try to understand what it is and why its here.

If you’d like to learn more about populism, please check out these articles:

What is your understanding of populism? Are there other political terms you would like to learn more about?

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

Why handwriting is good for you!

Eeek! The holidays are over, and it’s time to get back to studying. As you return to lectures, notes, and papers, The Word Nerd encourages you to seriously consider keeping good old fashioned pens and paper handy in your desk and backpack. And I’m not just saying that because I’m old. 😉 Writing things by hand stimulates more parts of your brain than typing does, and it helps you focus… all of which helps you retain information.

Not convinced? Check on my post on Handwriting vs. Typing, and then peruse the following infographic from IvyPanda that explains 20 Ways Handwriting Is Good for You and Your Studying. You might even want to grab a fun color pen (my favorites are Pilot Precise V5 and Paper Mate Ink Joy) and take a few notes. 😉 Thanks to James Corbyn of IvyPanda for sharing this information!

What are your thoughts on the benefits of handwriting? And… what are your favorite pens?

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!