What I Liked (and Didn’t) About And the Mountains Echoed

Mountains EchoedDid you realize that May is “Short Story Month”?  How appropriate, since most people (especially students and mamas) have so many field trips, projects, and end of year celebrations in May that reading time gets trumped! (Of course, I chose this month to read Gone Girl, which is keeping me up way too late every night.)

I haven’t read many short stories, but I recently read a novel that felt like a short story collection.

And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini reads like a compilation of intertwined short stories.  Hosseini’s tales span several generations and many countries, including Greece, America, and of course, Afghanistan.  To fully appreciate the tapestry of interwoven plot lines, you must pay attention to names and places.  When you pull everything together, it’s really cool.

What I liked about the book

As with his other famous book The Kite Runner, Hosseini masterfully strings words together to describe several bittersweet truths about life and the human existence.  For example:

The decline of one’s own body is incremental, as nearly imperceptible as it is insidious.  Seeing Thalia white-haired presents jolting evidence of her steady, inevitable march toward old age- and, by association, my own.

What a beautiful way to describe a phenomenon I’ve recently noticed – when I see friends or relatives after a long absence and note the outward signs of their age, I feel older.

Here’s another wonderful passage, one that carries special resonance with me, a “creative”:

I see the creative process as a necessarily thievish undertaking.

Hosseini’s ability to capture these kernels of truth always impresses me.

And the Mountains Echoed does not have the stark violence of that pivotal scene in The Kite Runner.  But it isn’t a lighthearted read, either.

What I didn’t like about the book

At first I didn’t enjoy Mountains at all; I described it to friends as “soap operas set in Afghanistan.”  Many of the early stories focus on the ugliest of human tendencies: jealousy, selfishness, manipulation, and distrust.  I was only a third of the way in and had already endured one character pushing her sibling out of a tree (which led to a paralyzing injury) and two assisted suicides.  It got to the point where I reached the middle of a story and thought, how will this one go wrong?

Also, I didn’t get a deep understanding of Afghan culture and history like I did with The Kite Runner.

Two of the later stories end, if not happily, at least with a marginal sense of closure.  I finally found a few characters that I could like and respect.  Yet there is always a haunting sense of something missed, something lacking.

This book is not a “pick me up” kinda read.

Final recommendation

You would probably like And The Mountains Echoed if:

  •  you crave beautiful prose and exotic settings
  • you aren’t afraid to spend time with the dark side of human nature
  • you are willing to pay attention to names, dates and places to discover how the characters’ lives interconnect
  • you like novels that experiment with new ways of storytelling

For a more traditional novel, I highly recommend The Kite Runner.  But be warned, a very important scene in the book involves a brutal sexual assault, and this plot point disturbs many readers.

Have you read And the Mountains Echoed?  What did you think?  Can you recommend any short story collections?

FYI, if you’re interested in listening to short stories, my friend Andrea Bagdley has compiled a great list of story telling podcasts at her blog Andrea Reads America.

Thanks for stopping by!

Julia

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Vocabulary from Gone Girl: Apotheosis

wondrous memeWelcome to Wondrous Words Wednesday!  Visit Kathy at Bermuda Onion to learn more cool words or share some of your own.

I’ve got one more word from Gone Girl.  Amy, one of the main characters, is wicked smart (and I mean wicked); she’s sent me to the dictionary several times.

Here’s the snippet from Gone Girl.  Amy is watching a TV talk show about herself:

The show gets underway, and I feel a bit better.  It is the apotheosis of Amy.

apotheosis \ə-pä-thē-ō-səs, a-pə-thē-ə-səs\ noun; from Greek apo + theos god; elevation to divine status; the perfect example of something

For example,

During her interview, Missy Franklin appeared as the apotheosis of good sportsmanship.

or

Gone Girl, a literary apotheosis of the domestic thriller, rushed to the top of the best seller list and will come out as a movie later this year.

Word Nerd Workout

Use apotheosis in a sentence.  What is the perfect example of a spring day? a sci-fi story? high school?

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

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 Julia

Why We Should Be Generous With Books

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My personal library; awesome for organization

I have a confession:  sometimes I’m possessive with my stuff.  Including books.

I used to blame it on “the only child” syndrome.

I’ve always handed over a favorite book with hesitation.  What if I never see it again?  A few years ago, a friend gave me a personal library set.  Using tools from this set, I put my name in all of my books and kept records of who had which novel from my collection.

If I didn’t see a book for a few months, I started asking questions.

But during Lent this year I realized the fault of my ways.

Awareness struck me while I was on the dreadmill, listening to Michael Hyatt’s podcast about finding margin .  Michael said that many people make decisions out of fear that they might lose something, miss out, or be judged.   He referenced the scarcity mentality, first introduced by Dr. Stephen Covey in his book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.

I paused the treadmill and the podcast as I realized with horror: I had a scarcity mentality.

The Seven Habits of HighlyTwenty years ago, I read The Seven Habits.  I was newly married, my Master’s Degree hung on the wall, and I thought I had it all figured out.  I read Dr. Covey’s explanation of “the scarcity mentality” and thought, with scorn, of several people I knew who fit this description:

They see life as having only so much, as though there were only one pie out there.  And if someone were to get a big piece of the pie, it would mean less for everybody else.  The Scarcity Mentality is the zero-sum paradigm of life.

It took two decades for me to understand that I have suffered from a limited view of the world for a long time, and in many facets of my life.  It’s an anxious way to live, thinking that there isn’t enough.  My possessive tendencies filled me with worry, not joy.

Thanks to Mr. Hyatt and Dr. Covey, I’m done with scarcity.  This revelation has changed my perspective on parenthood, marriage, and friendships, but I’ll keep my thoughts here focused on the word nerdy realm.

Now, when fretful thoughts creep up, I remind myself that I already have or can obtain everything I need accomplish my goals.  And one thing I love to do is help people find interesting things to read.  I can’t do that clutching selfishly to my books.

book showerTherefore, I’m embracing a generous literary spirit.    If I can find great books to give as gifts, I’ll spend the money to do so.  If I’ve got books on the shelf I haven’t touched in years, I’ll donate them to the library.  I’ll hand out my beloved copy of The Help without reservation.  Because encouraging people to read is more important than preserving my book collection.

Book lovers shouldn’t hoard books; we should share them. 

We live in a world where Minecraft, Net Flicks, and six second videos pull attention away from books.  While those forms of entertainment are ok in moderation (see, that’s the abundance talking- there’s plenty for everyone), books deserve love, too.  And the best way I can spread that love is with an open hand.

How do you feel about sharing your books? 

Thanks for sharing!

Julia

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Vocabulary from Gone Girl: Wastrel

wondrous memeDo you care enough to look up words when you don’t know what they mean? Then you’re in the right place! Welcome to Wondrous Words Wednesday, a great meme for word nerds hosted by Kathy at Bermuda Onion.
I’ve got another word from Gone Girl. In this quote, one of the main characters, Nick, describes how he looked at a press conference:

The booze floating, sludgelike, just beneath the surface of my skin made me look like a fleshy wastrel, just sensuous enough to be disreputable.

wastrel \’wās-trēl\ noun from an irregular form of waste; one who expends resources foolishly and self-indulgently; one who wastes time, money, etc.

Gone GirlWord Nerd Workout

Have you ever known a wastrel? Tell us about him or her in a sentence. Fortunately, my only experience with wastrels has been through fiction. Here’s my sentence:

I shuddered at the story of the young man who wasted all of his money on alcohol and gambling and hoped that my son would never be such a wastrel.

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Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

Julia

Great Reading Suggestions from Children’s Book Week

CBW_Poster-2014Often when I pull into the school parking lot, my boys are waiting in the parent pick-up line with faces buried in books.   This word nerd swells with pride.  Shortly after, I yell through the minivan window for them to stop reading so that we don’t slow down the line of anxious mamas behind us.

Once we’re out of the line, I can smile again.  My kids love reading.  I wish all kids did. Because I believe:

reading nation purple

If we’re going have a strong country, we must be wise, informed, and critical.

We must read.

Next week, May 12-17 2014, Every Child a Reader will launch the 95th annual Children’s Book Week, a yearly celebration to promote literacy.

There are events planned in all 50 states for CBW 2014, but my favorite part of the week is the Children’s Choice Book Awards.  The only people who get to vote for these awards are kids, which makes these awards meaningful for young readers.

Of course, I don’t get to vote, but I do love the list of nominees for the awards; it gives me great ideas for the children’s “To Read” list, especially with summer coming.  And if you are a kid, or have kids interested in voting, please visit the Children’s Choice site by May 12.  The set up is cool this year, with a fun, interactive cartoon setting.

Here are the nominees for 2014:

Crayons QuitK-2nd Grade

  • Alphabet Trucks, by Samantha R. Vamos; illustrated by Ryan O’Rourke
  • Chamelia and the New Kid in Class, by Ethan Long
  • The Day the Crayons Quit by Drew Daywalt; illustrated by Oliver Jeffers (this book was also a Goodreads Choice Award Nominee)
  • Mustache Baby by Bridget Heos; illustrated by Joy Ang
  • Bear and Bee by Sergio Ruzzier

3rd-4th Grade

  • Bean Dog and Nugget: The Ball by Charise Mericle Harper
  • Cougar: A Cat with Many Names by Stephen Person
  • The Matchbox Diary by Paul Fleischman; illustrated by Bagram Ibatoulline
  • Pancho Rabbit and the Coyote: A Migrant’s Tale by Duncan Tonatiuh
  • Bugs in My Hair! by David Shannon

5th-6th Grade

  • hokey pokeyHokey Pokey by Jerry Spinelli
  • National Geographic Kids Myths Busted! by Emily Krieger; illustrated by Tom Nick Cocotos
  • Prince Puggly of Spud by Robert Paul Weston
  • Lawless: Book 1 by Jeffery Salane
  • Battling Boy by Paul Pope

Teens

  • E & P won the YA category on both the Goodreads list and the NPR list
    E & P won the YA category on both the Goodreads list and the NPR list

    Allegiant by Veronica Roth

  • Clockwork Princess by Cassandra Clare
  • Eleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell
  • Smoke by Ellen Hopkins
  • The 5th Wave by Rick Yancey

Most of these titles are new to me.  What I have heard about Allegiant has been mixed to unsatisfactory, but I will probably read it this summer.  (If I keep my expectations low, perhaps I won’t be disappointed.)  I listened to the audiobook of Eleanor and Park and highly recommend it.

 

Have you read any of these books?  How can you celebrate Children’s Book Week?

Perhaps I’ll buy a few of these and leave them as presents on the breakfast table next week.  More books for the parent pick up line!

Julia

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Vocabulary from Gone Girl: Misogynistic

wondrous memeWelcome to Wondrous Words Wednesday, a weekly meme hosted by Kathy at Bermuda Onion. Visit Kathy’s blog for links to more word nerdy words.

I’m finally reading Gone Girl, by Gillian Flynn, and I’m intrigued. I love how Flynn uses alternating points of view to build tension between the husband and wife in this “marriage gone wrong” thriller. The opening line, from the POV of husband Nick, disturbed me:

When I think of my wife, I always think of her head.

Sounds like a murderer to me, but maybe that’s what Flynn wants me to think. I’ll have to read on and find out!

Gone GirlHere’s Nick again, speaking about his father’s Alzheimer’s:

… a slow decline into a sudden, steep drop that forced us to move our independent, misogynistic father to a giant home that stank of chicken broth and piss, where he’d be surrounded by women helping him at all times. Ha.

Great description, no? I had to look up misogynistic, but should have guessed at the meaning from the root gyn.

misogyny \mə-‘sä-jə-nē\ noun, from Greek misogynia, from misein to hate + gynē women; a hatred of women

Word Nerd Workout

Can you think of a misogynistic character, fictional or real? Tell us about him/her in the comments!

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

Julia 

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