Greatest Books that Every Dog Owner Should Read

Today, a guest post from Leslie Simpson of Homemakerguide.com. She’s going to share some great books about dogs!

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Dogs can be one of the best companions for humans, but it is challenging for new pet owners to understand the various signs given out by these faithful pets. A great deal of knowledge is required to interact in a better way with pets. It is also essential to have a lot of awareness about the different facets of a dog to be able to train them well.

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Thankfully, several resources come in handy while trying to understand dogs. These are primarily in the form of books. Some of the best books every dog owner should have are the following.

The Other End of the Leash: Why We Do What We Do Around Dogs – by Patricia B. McConnell

Patricia McConnell is an animal behaviorist and zoologist who has dealt heavily with subjects like dog’s behavior and actions. The focus of this book is communication, which can be among dogs or between dogs and humans. There exists many communication differences between these relationships, but it is brought out well with a lot of examples and experiences. McConnell has extensive knowledge of working with dogs and wolves. Some suggestions made by the book are to take up the role of a ‘compassionate leader’ than an alpha. It is a great book to understand the different behaviors of a dog – when interacting with other animals and when interacting with its owner.

Reaching the Animal Mind: Clicker Training and What It Teaches Us About All Animals by Karen Pryor

Karen Pryor is the author of this book, which manages to provide a tremendous amount of information regarding dogs and how to train them. Many consider this as one of the best dog books for the type of training approach preached. This training approach is considered as a successful method for creating a strong bond between man and animal. Pryor is a great advocate of clicker training, which involves creating a consistent clicker sound to alter a dog’s behavior. The method consists of treating the dog with a reward if it manages to change its behavior with an associated sound.
Clicker training is very practical, and it is capable of acting even on older dogs. Crucially, this book can come out with information about the technique and science behind the clicker training method, and it will be sufficient to reinforce people’s belief in this system further.

Cesar’s Way: The Natural, Everyday Guide to Understanding and Correcting Common Dog Problems – by Cesar Millan

Cesar Millan is the controversial dog trainer who also hosts the ‘Dog Whisperer’ show on National Geographic. His techniques of training dogs are primarily based on the old-school philosophy of dominance, but it is still relevant in the case of older dogs. There are also several instances – like in the case of an unruly dog – where techniques mentioned by Millan tend to work well. Since the knowledge acquired by Millan is born out of experience rather than academics, one can be sure that the methods listed out in this book tend to work. A significant section of Millan’s training methods focuses on physical communication and dog psychology.

Don’t Shoot the Dog!: The New Art of Teaching and Training, by Karen Pryor

It is one of the numerous books on training dogs, but it comes with a difference. Trainer Karen Pryor has come out with a string of training methods that would even be applicable for humans. It focuses on ‘affection training’ as a means to encourage change in behavior.
Many people make the mistake of trying to use force or authority to make dogs understand commands, but this may not be the right way to make a dog know that specific behaviors are not acceptable. This book focuses on imparting a particular response even as a puppy, as it would help bring out a quick change. Pryor is also a massive advocate of socialization by puppies to make them go through changes in an effortless manner.

Perfect Puppy in 7 Days: How to Start Your Puppy Off Right, by Dr. Sophia Yin

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Dr. Sophia Yin is the animal behaviorist and veterinarian who was known for her stellar work with dogs before passing away in 2014. Yin was immensely responsible for changing the notion that dominance was required by pet owners to ensure proper behavior from their pets. Instead, Yin focused on a humanitarian approach towards reinforcing good behavior among dogs. This book best describes this ground-breaking approach, and it is a gold standard for owners not keen on dominating their pets.

Conclusion

These books break down several training styles and the significant differences between them—just like how homemakerguide.com places focus on top home improvement products. These training techniques are excellent when it comes to frequently addressing issues seen amongst puppies. Sticking with these techniques should ensure a positive and trustworthy relationship between a puppy and a pet owner. They are also quite helpful in dealing with older pets. What do you think? Let us know in the comments!

About my guest blogger

Leslie Simpson is a person who devoted all her amazing life to cultivating, homesteading, planting, growing, caring, making the perfect landscape and all other things home and garden as well as a writer with https://homemakerguide.com/.  She considers herself a Word Nerd as well counting numerous books she read through the years.

Three teen terms you must know

There are many benefits to coaching high school cross country. I get to be active and encourage young people to work hard, set goals, and challenge themselves. I get to spend a lot of time outside, often on pretty trails, chatting with kids. But honestly, the best part of coaching teens?

They make me laugh.

And, they are off!

When I’ve had a rough day, and I show up to practice cranky, inevitably my runners will do or say something to make me smile. As a Word Nerd, one of the things I enjoy most about teens is learning their language. It’s constantly changing, and I love to try and keep up.

During workouts and the stretches that follow, I hear all kinds of new expressions, like “It do be that way until it don’t be.” Or “Yeet!”, “Shut up, Boomer!”, and “Stop cappin'”. I squint, I strain, I try to understand, and finally, I just ask for an explanation. Usually, they laugh at me, but I’m willing to endure ridicule in my pursuit of understanding adolescent verbiage.

So for you today, an explanation of three words I hear teens throwing around. These words are already “old”, and my comprehension late, but I’m sure you’ll still smile.

yeet: According to Urban Dictionary, yeet can be used as an exclamation, a verb, or even a noun. Dictionary.com says it was first popular as an exclamation way back in 2008 when it was used to express excitement or approval. In 2014, the term yeet described a dance that was popular in You Tube and Vine videos. Yeet got popular again in 2016 in a viral video of a girl tossing a soda can into a school hallway while shouting “Yeet!” So the verb yeet usually refers to heaving something. In 2018, the American Dialect Society voted yeet, an “indication of surprise or excitement,” the Slang/Informal Word of the Year.

Boomer: a slang term for a Baby Boomer or anyone who is older than the person using the word; it’s usually an insult; often meant to characterize someone as one or more of the following: old, white, suburbanite, likes 80s rock, MAGA, balding, passionate about lawn mowing, hates Millennials, works in an office, uses phrases like “back in my day”, etc. (Urban Dictionary)

Clownin’: Used to describe someone who is doing something foolish or ridiculous; can be used as a verb, to make someone look stupid or to play a joke on someone. This one has actually been around for a while; I’ve recently heard a resurgence of the term at practice.

There you go! Now you know some key teen terms, but stay on your toes. There will be at least five new ones next week. 😉

Word Nerd note: I told my kids about this post, and child #3 said, “Mom, boomer isn’t a word you need to analyze. You just use it, you know?” Ha!

Wondrous Words Wednesday

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What are some fun “teen words” you use or want to know more about?

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Please vote!

I know, I know, I don’t like politics either.  There’s too much name calling, finger pointing, and fact spinning, on all sides.  But these people who sit in the halls of Congress, who cast votes in our state capitals, and who serve in local government offices are the ones who decide how our tax dollars are spent, what are kids study in public school, and how we are going to pay for healthcare.  Shouldn’t we be paying attention to what they are doing?

It’s not a presidential election year, but please take the time to learn a little bit about the candidates who are running for local, state, and federal offices.  Seek out facts on the relevant issues from multiple and reputable sources. And on Tuesday, November 5, cast your vote. 

Thanks for getting democratic with me!

What is a fartlek?

Running talk abounds in my world right now. A few weeks ago, the amazing Eliud Kipchoge ran a marathon in less than two hours. (That’s 26.2 miles, people. It would take me two hours to run half that far!) Speaking of a half marathon, my hubby is training for one in November. And, perhaps most importantly to this cross country coach, we have entered post season and are competing in district, region, and hopefully state championships over the next three weeks.

So yeah, lots of running talk. My runners are shifting their focus from distance training to speed work, which makes it necessary for us to use a funny Swedish word at practice – fartlek.

Yes, fartlek.

We can’t even say it without eliciting snickers from around our circle of runners, especially the middle schoolers. But fartlek actually has nothing to do with flatulence. It’s a training technique that most serious runners are very familiar with.

fartlek (\ ˈfärtˌlek\ ) from Swedish, from fart speed, pace (from Middle Low German vart journey, pace, alteration of Old Saxon fard; akin to Old English fierd, fyrd military expedition, campaign) + lek play, game, from Old Norse leikr

“Fartlek”, or speed play, describes interval training in which a runner alternates periods of sprinting with periods of jogging. You can base fartleks on time or distance. (Thank you, Merriam-Webster.)

So, next time you hear fartlek, think of a surge workout, not that other thing.

We’ve got our district championship meet today! Wish us luck. Hopefully, all of those fartleks will pay off!

Wondrous Words Wednesday

If you like to learn new words and the origins of their meanings, visit the Wondrous Words Wednesday meme at Bermuda Onion. Each Wednesday, bloggers share new words they’ve learned.

Did you know what fartlek means? Do you have a funny term from sports or training to share?

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7 Must Read Books for Autumn

A guest post from Desiree Villena and Tess Patalano of Reedsy.

There’s nothing quite like snuggling up with a cup of tea and a good book while the hours pass idly by. Autumn is the best time of year to begin this restful ritual, and naturally, having the perfect selection of reads by your side is imperative.

I don’t love to be frightened, especially in these comfy moments, but I do like to be enthralled! That’s why I seek out books that keep me in suspense, not terror. These kinds of books (almost “cozy thrillers,” if you will) are absolutely perfect to read curled up in bed while the air begins to chill, and the seven listed here are a few of my favorites: suspenseful enough to captivate you, without scaring you so much that you run away screaming.

1. The Girls by Emma Cline

This fictionalized account of the Manson Family cult may seem intimidating, but Cline’s take on the group and their illicit activities is surprisingly tame. Most of The Girls is spent conjuring the hazy, trance-like atmosphere of their commune, dubbed “the ranch.” This is where protagonist Evie finds herself connecting with her peers for the first time in her life — especially Suzanne, an elusive, raven-haired girl who initiates Evie into the countercultural lifestyle.

Even as readers’ feelings of unease increase over the course of the narration, it never turns into true terror. The book does culminate in a series of murders (based on the actual Manson Family killings in August 1969), but the scene is brief. Cline is much more devoted to creating a certain mood through lyrical, immersive descriptions than shocking her readers with gore; meaning that despite this book’s spine-tingling subject matter, you won’t have to worry about nightmares.

2. Truly, Madly, Guilty by Liane Moriarty

Fans of Big Little Lies and The Husband’s Secret will fall right into step with this domestic thriller, which concerns a trio of families that come together on “one ordinary day” for a barbecue. Told through both hair-raising flashbacks and strategically veiled present-day narration, Truly Madly Guilty creates enigmas that keep the reader hooked.

Truly Madly Guilty by Liane Moriarty

As she unravels these juicy mysteries, Moriarty touches on the complications of friendships, the fragility of family, and the nature of love. Her ruminations are sometimes cheapened by the prolongation of suspense, but overall, it’s still a worthy read. This book falls squarely between the human entanglements of Jodi Picoult and more sophisticated psychological works of Gillian Flynn. Truly Madly Guilty is chock full of thrills, tempered by relatable human drama.

3. The Grownup by Gillian Flynn

Speaking of Gillian Flynn, The Grownup is the perfect choice for those who enjoy her longer works and want something a little less intense for bedtime reading. Originally part of a 2014 collection of short stories The Grownup was later released as a standalone novella — but remains one of Flynn’s lesser-known works, especially seeing as the rest have adapted for the screen in one way or another.

The novella follows its brazen narrator, a former sex worker-turned-“aura reader” and spiritual cleanser, and her client Susan Burke. Susan’s stepson Miles has been acting strange ever since their family moved into an old local mansion — painting on the walls, tormenting his little brother, and screaming bloody murder alone in his room. But is it really Miles that’s so troubled, or the house itself?

Yes, The Grownup is probably the creepiest read on this list. However, it’s also the shortest, and (mild spoiler) the ending isn’t as disturbing as you might anticipate.

4. Sadie by Courtney Summers

Courtney Summers’ novel Sadie, a massive hit on the YA lit scene, is a Gone Girl-esque tale with a twist. The titular heroine embarks on a mission to avenge her sister Mattie, who’s been found dead under suspicious circumstances. After the meager efforts of the police fail to uncover the truth, Sadie begins a renegade road trip to try and find Mattie’s killer herself.

We quickly discover that Sadie herself has now gone missing, leaving behind only her getaway car and duffel bag. The novel backtracks to fill in the gaps with Sadie’s own vivid narration, as well as a present-day chronicle of her story in the form of a true crime podcast. The host of this podcast, West McCray, soon finds himself inexorably intertwined with not just the sisters, but their whole town and the secrets it keeps.

5. Northanger Abbey by Jane Austen

Okay, this is more of a fun one to de-stress you when all that suspense becomes a bit too much. Northanger Abbey may not be one of Austen’s more famous novels, but it’s still a favorite of mine: a hilarious parody of the Gothic romance genre that was sweeping 19th-century shelves at the time. (In order to optimally experience the irony of this book, consider first reading A Sicilian Romance by Ann Radcliffe — or Jane Eyre at the very least.)

Northanger Abbey follows our contented but naive young protagonist, Catherine Morland, who’s been made particularly impressionable by the Gothic romances she enjoys reading. Some of her contemporaries scoff at her literary habits; luckily her suitor, Henry Tilney, is like-minded in that he appreciates a good novel, but is wise enough not to put too much stock in them.

All goes well in their courtship until Henry invites Catherine to stay at his family’s stately home, and her imagination begins to run amok. She fantasizes that the many unused rooms in the house have a sinister purpose, and upon learning that Henry’s mother died several years earlier, believes that his father has actually imprisoned her.

All this turns out to be patently untrue, and Catherine, humiliated by her flights of fancy, thinks that Henry’s opinion of her has spoiled. Luckily, because this is Austen and not Radcliffe, they still end up together in the end! There’s also some great meta-commentary throughout the book on the social service of novels, which at the time was a controversial topic: indeed, Northanger Abbey was very ahead of its time.

6. Fates and Furies by Lauren Groff

As far as suspense and mystery goes, Fates and Furies is a slow but captivating burn.
The book chronicles the romantic relationship of Lancelot “Lotto” Satterwhite and Mathilde Yoder. The first part (“Fates”) is told through Lotto’s eyes, while the second (“Furies”) is Mathilde’s POV. They meet in college and, in a flurry of passion, marry two weeks later… and stay married for twenty-four years. Theirs is an intimate partnership, but the stories they tell about themselves, their relationship, and the world at large, differ vastly.

Through each of their accounts, Groff slowly divulges secrets and resentments that have lain dormant for years. While it’s certainly not the easiest journey with the most likable characters, I found the stories incredibly compelling when wound together, and the relationship a fascinating one. The juxtaposition creates the passageways into which perception shifts, revealing what a little bit of luck and determination can truly mean for two lives lived in union.

7. Kindred by Octavia Butler

If you want to mix a bit of fantasy in with your suspense, Kindred is a wonderful choice. The novel follows Dana, a young African-American woman living in California in the 1970s, who is abruptly transported back in time to the antebellum South. Dana is repeatedly returned to her present day life and then snatched back in time, with each visit longer and more punishing than the one before it.

Octavia Butler is a master of both fantasy and sci-fi, and she uses her command of these genres to stretch even further into historical fiction and social critique. Dana’s relationship with her husband, a white man, further complicates her time travel experiences, as he eventually travels back with her and must also navigate a segregated world. With its mysterious fantastical premise, Kindred is certainly a one-of-a-kind read that hooks readers from the first moment Dana becomes dizzy unpacking her new apartment.

Tess Patalano is a writer at Reedsy, a marketplace giving authors and publishers access to talented professionals and free educational content.

What does “quid pro quo” mean?

quid pro quo = something for something

Lately, journalists and politicians have been throwing around the phrase “quid pro quo” with gusto. As in, Energy Secretary Rick Perry stating that he was “extremely comfortable” that there wasn’t any “quid pro quo” regarding President Trump’s interactions with officials in Ukraine.

I’m very interested in this news story, but I kept getting distracted by the phrase “quid pro quo”. It’s one of those terms I think I should know but honestly don’t. Enter Merriam-Webster.

The expression quid pro quo \ ˌkwid-ˌprō-ˈkwō  \ comes from New Latin and means “something for something”. The phrase was first used way back in the 16th century to describe something obtained from an apothecary, and often referred to exchanging one medicine for another. The expression quickly expanded to describe equal exchanges of all types. Today, it is frequently used in legal situations.

So, regarding President Trump, everyone is curious if Trump orchestrated a quid pro quo with Ukraine – an equal exchange of information (about the Biden family) for financial support to the Ukranian government.

Hopefully, we will find out soon.

Wondrous Words Wednesday

If you like to learn new words and the origins of their meanings, visit the Wondrous Words Wednesday meme at Bermuda Onion. Each Wednesday, bloggers share new words they’ve learned.

What’s a phrase you’ve heard lately that stumps you? Maybe the Word Nerd can help!

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