Why You Should Read the Language of Flowers

The Language of Flowers

I didn’t think I would like this book at first.  I was afraid it would be dark and depressing, like something Oprah would select for her book club.

But the beauty of the prose encouraged me to read, and I’m so glad I did.

The premise

The Language of Flowers tells the story of an intriguing young woman named Victoria.  She has lived her entire life in foster care, and at 18, she is “emancipated” into the “real world” without money, friends, or formal education.  She has spent her life building a protective barrier between herself and other people, but she knows the language of flowers, and she uses that to overcome her fears and heal.   

What I liked

The story opens with Victoria waking to a fire in her bed.

Standing in the middle of the room, I located the source… A neat row of wooden matches lined the foot of the bed… Watching them light, I felt a terror unequal to the size of the flickering flames, and for a paralyzing moment I was ten years old again, desperate and hopeful in a way I had never been before and would never be again.

I thought, Oh, no.  This is going to be a book about abuse.  Granted, the novel describes bleak situations in the foster care system, and Victoria has lots of issues.  But, more importantly, her story is one of hope.

One of the many thistles on my farm; note the prickles!
One of the many thistles on my farm; note the prickles!

Here are the best parts:

  •  The author, Vanessa Diffenbaugh, cleverly weaves two plot lines together: one told by 10-year-old Victoria and one told by 18-year-old Victoria.  The two stories accelerate to an intersection and climax that does not disappoint.
  • Victoria is prickly, like thistle. (meaning: misanthropy)   She’s so unemotional, she’s hard to like, but her perseverance inspires.  I like inspiring characters.
  • The prose is lovely.
  • I enjoyed learning about flowers and their meanings.  For example, sun flower means false riches, so Victoria hates it when brides choose this flower for weddings.
  • It has a happy ending.  I’m a sucker for those.

What I didn’t like

I don’t have much to complain about.  At a few key points, I thought that the characterization wasn’t consistent.  For example, a character does something that clearly adds to the tension of the story but the action doesn’t really fit the character.

Recommendation

The Language of Flowers is one of the best books I’ve read this year.  It’s the perfect blend of bitter and sweet, and I encourage anyone who likes stories about rising above difficult circumstances to pick it up.  There is darkness, but it doesn’t overwhelm.

Also, if you read about Vanessa Diffenbaugh on Goodreads, you’ll learn she has very interesting experience with foster care and helping underprivileged youth.

Have you ever started a book that you thought would be depressing but  turned out to be a great read?   Tell us about it!  If you have read The Language of Flowers, what did you think of it?

Thanks for stopping by!

Julia 

 

Vocab from Jerry Maguire: Truculent

wondrous memeWelcome to Wondrous Words Wednesday, a meme perfect for word nerds like me.  For links to more interesting words, visit Kathy over at Bermudaonion.net.

My word today is inspired by comment from last week’s Word Nerd Workout.  I asked for synonyms for bellicose, and Nicole gave me truculent, a truly awesome word.  I remember the first time I heard it, in the movie Jerry Maguire.

For those of you who are too young to know, Jerry Maguire tells the story of a sports agent who grows weary of the vicious ambition in his business and decides it would be better to have fewer clients and better relationships. When this philosophy gets him fired, he ends up running his own company with one very demanding client.

Jerry McGuireBy the way, this flick is the only Tom Cruise movie that I’ve ever liked because he plays a bit of a loser, instead of a hot-shot.  And Cuba Gooding, Jr., as the bombastic Rod Tidwell, makes me laugh.

Rod Tidwell always has truculent confrontations with the media; he often shakes his fist and shouts at reporters.

truculent \’trek-yə-lənt\ adj, from the Latin truc-, trux, meaning fierce; feeling or displaying ferocity; cruel, harsh; aggressively self-assertive (this fits Rod Tidwell the best)

Word Nerd Workout

Think of a truculent character from movies or literature.  My suggestion: Tybalt, from Romeo and Juliet.

Thanks for getting your nerd on with me today!

Julia 

Why An Audible Membership is Worth It

Sometimes, getting to all the great books I want to read means that I must listen to them.  This is especially handy during my long commutes to and from my kids’ sports practice.   When I can find a book that is friendly for all ears in my family, I’m really excited!

Audible 2

I started using audio books about a year ago.  At first, I got most of them from iTunes.  But I soon switched to Audible.com, and here’s why.

Price, Convenience, Selection

Older books on iTunes don’t cost too much- about $10 per book.  You can also find specials, like great teen reads for $3.99.  Or good deals on popular books.   For example, September 2013 releases from Stephen King and Nicolas Sparks only cost $10 right now.  But I’m interested in the Artemis Fowl series.  The first few books cost $15 each, but as the series progressed, the cost increased!  The most recent AF releases cost over $20 a piece on iTunes.  Ouch!

Also, iTunes doesn’t have all of the books in the AF series.  I found a promotion from Audible and took the plunge.  So far, there has not been a book I’ve wanted that I can’t find.  And it’s easy to download books from Audible to my iPod.

Membership Plans

Admittedly, it’s hard to find the fine print about membership on Audible’s web site.  Here are helpful links:

  • Audible Membership Details, which I found at the bottom of the website under “Conditions of Use.”
  • Available plans, as of August 2015.  (For up to date info, go to the help center and search membership plans.)

I actually called the company when I signed up and spoke to a rep who recommended the Gold Plan.  Gold Plan Membership includes:

  • an annual fee of ~ $150 for 12 credits
  • 1 credit = 1 book (so 1 book costs $12.50)
  • 6 roll over credits per year (so if I don’t use all 12, I can keep 6 for the next year)
  • 30% off all books not bought with credits

So far, I’m happy.  I’ve been able to find all the books I want to “read”, and $12.50 seems like a great price when a lot of books cost $20+.  If I get close to the end of my membership period, I can always download a bunch of books to my computer until I’m ready to listen- I’m sure I’ll always use my credits in time.

If you want to try Audible, they offer a 30 day free trial membership.  After that, you pay $14.95 per month.  If you cancel before the end of the 30 day trial, you won’t be charged anything.  I actually did this, downloaded two books, then cancelled my membership and resigned up a few months later at the Gold Membership level, since $12.50 beats $14.95!

Technical Stuff

To use Audible books, you must download the Audible Manager software.  (easy).  Once you purchase books, you can tell the manager to download them to your favorite device: smartphone, tablet, iPod, or computer.  Also, with many books, there’s a link between the Kindle version and the Audible version, so you can switch between reading and listening.  But you must own both the Kindle book and the audio book to switch between reading and listening.  You also need Audible mobile app and the Kindle app. 

Suggested Audio Titles

My next "read"
My next “read”

Whether you use Audible or not, audio books are a great way to get in more reading.  I highly recommend the Artemis Fowl series, narrated by Nathaniel Parker.  He’s an excellent reader, using multiple accents to distinguish between characters.  I also really enjoyed the audio versions of Wonder and Mr. Penumbra’s 24-Hour Bookstore.

For a fantastic list of recommended audio titles visit

***Addendum.  If you don’t like a book you download from Audible, you can return it up to one year after purchase.  I hated The Great Brain by John Fitzgerald.  I returned it and Audible gave me my credit back.  Yippee!

Have you tried an Audible membership?  How was your experience?  Can you recommend another source for audio books?

Thanks!

Julia 

 

Vocab from Political Debate: Bellicose

Wondrous Words Wednesday

It’s time for Wondrous Words Wednesday!  For more great words to add to your vocab, visit Kathy at Bermudaonion.net.

I like to listen to the news on the way to school, but my kids complain that it’s always negative.  War in Syria, shootings in the US, and fights in Congress.  The past few days have had a lot of coverage on the current battle at the Capitol over the budget and the health care bill.

I wish they would stop bickering and get to work.

Anyway, I heard a great word nerdy word:

The bellicose politicians refuse to back down in their fight to defund “Obamacare.”

bellicose \’bel-I-cōs\ adj, from Latin bellicus, of war; favoring or inclined to start quarrels or wars

I knew “bella” means pretty; clearly “belli” has a very different meaning!

Word Nerd Workout

There are TONS of synonyms for this word.  What does that say about us?  Anyway, leave a few in the comments.  I’ve featured one as a word nerd word before.  I’ll give you a hint:

You get it? Pug?
You get it? Pug?

Banned Book Week Winner!

Congrats to Nicole Goodman of Work in Sweats Mama.  She won a copy of Looking for Alaska or another banned book as part of my giveaway! Thanks everyone for commenting.  I hope you all get a chance to read a banned book soon.  Visit Nerdy Book Club for a great post with micro reviews of several banned books.

Thanks for getting nerdy with me today!

Julia 

 

Why Banning Books Is a Bad Idea

 

Lord of the FliesI’m a conservative mother.  I don’t let my kids watch PG-13 movies until they are 13. And I reserve the right to label some books as “PG-13” as well.  But would I want them banned from schools and libraries?  No way.

We need to be cognizant of what we expose ourselves and our children to.  According to the ALA site, most book bans start from this premise: to protect children.

But removing books from public access doesn’t sit well with this word nerd.  Especially since I know that in our society, explicit language and sexual content abound on radio, TV, and the Internet.  We could take Looking for Alaska out of the library.  But a kid can go home and watch a You Tube video that glorifies smoking and sex but lacks the important and eloquent messages that come along with Alaska: the struggle to handle ambiguity; learning to grieve; finding one’s place in a confusing world.

One also wouldn’t learn any cool new vocabulary.  😉

My husband, aka Devil’s Advocate, points out that watching TV and viewing You Tube are private activities.  Libraries and most schools are public institutions.  But please.  Wouldn’t it be better for kids to read, think about, and discuss the controversial topics of racism or abuse or sexuality in the context of a book?  Perhaps, best case, under the guidance of an adult/parent/teacher?

Most Frequently Banned

13 Reasons WhyHere’s the list of the ten most banned/ challenged books of 2012:

  • Captain Underpants
  • The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian
  • Thirteen Reasons Why
  • Fifty Shades of Grey
  • And Tango Makes Three
  • The Kite Runner
  • Looking for Alaska
  • Scary Stories
  • The Glass Castle
  • Beloved

Have you read any of these?  I have.  And I can understand the concern about offensive content.  I couldn’t even get through Beloved because of its raw and powerful description of the ramifications of slavery.  And I’m no fan of Captain Underpants, but if it gets a kid interested in reading, why not?

Now, if any of my children come home with 50 Shades of Grey, I’ll tell them it’s rated R, and they need to wait until they are eighteen. Yikes.  Would any school librarian really buy that for the library?

Here is a list of often banned classics:

  • The Great Gatsby
  • The Catcher in the Rye
  • The Grapes of Wrath
  • To Kill a Mockingbird
  • The Color Purple
  • Lord of the Flies
  • Of Mice and Men
  • Gone With the Wind
  • The Lord of the Rings

These books are all icons of literature, and their value far outshines their offensive content.  Again, I have never liked The Catcher in the Rye, but I want my kids to read it and discuss it with me.  My thirteen year old recently read Lord of the Flies, and we compared it to The Hunger Games in its commentary on human nature.  Later, we could add Heart of Darkness  to that reading list.

Why Banning is Bad

In short, I realize that some words offend. But having no words at all would be much worse.  I don’t want to perseverate on controversial issues, but I can’t hide from them either.  Why not start the conversation with a book?

How do you feel about the idea of banning books with offensive content?  

Thanks for sharing your ideas!

Julia 

 

Vocab for Banned Books Week: Expunge

 

wondrous memeWelcome to Wondrous Words Wednesday, an awesome meme for Word Nerds hosted by Kathy at Bermudaonion.net.  Visit her site for links to fun and interesting words!

It’s Banned Books Week, and I had to pick a word that fits the theme of the week: bringing attention to books that have been banned or removed from libraries and schools for offensive content.

The editor wanted to expunge the offensive language from the manuscript, but the author refused censor his own work.

Expunge \ik-‘spənj\ verb; from Latin expungere to mark for deletion by dots; to strike out, obliterate, or mark for deletion; to efface completely; to eliminate (as a memory) from one’s consciousness

Words can build up or destroy.  We must be careful how we use them; we should be aware of what we read.  But I’m not comfortable with expunging the words, or  volumes, of another writer, even if I don’t agree with them.

Word Nerd Workout

Complete this analogy, with a review of another good word for Banned Books Week!

expunge:delete:: expurgate: __________

Thanks for getting nerdy with me today!

Banned Book Week 2013Banned Books Week Giveaway!

Anyone who comments on the blog between Sept 20 and 29 will be entered into a drawing to win a copy of Looking for Alaska or another banned book from the ALA’s Banned Books List.  

For links to other great posts on banned books, visit Sheila over at Book Journey.

Tell me how you feel about banning books, or share some of your favorite banned books.

Thanks readers!

Julia