My 12-year-old daughter came home from school the other day and announced, “Everyone is going to see The Fault in Our Stars movie when it comes out.”
Everyone?
Well, she conceded, about 90%.
Then she put her hands on her hips and gave me the why don’t you let me do what other parents let their kids do look.
I get it a lot.
I sighed and asked, “Do you even know what the book is about?”
She admitted she did not. And so I launched into an explanation of one of my favorite books, which is about to hit the big screen.
Here’s what you and my daughter need to know:
- TFIOS is the love story of Hazel and Augustus, two teenagers diagnosed with cancer and contemplating the Big Questions of life.
- You should read it first. I say this about all books, but I really mean it this time. John Green, the author of The Fault in Our Stars, tells this sad story with an admirable mix of humor, wit, and brutal honesty. I’m not sure how his “voice” will transfer to the big screen. Sure, his dialogue will make it, but what about great lines that are part of Hazel’s narrative, like
I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once.
Or:
Funerals, I had decided, are for the living.
Its only 313 pages; most people I know finish it in two days. Read it!
It’s sad. These are kids contemplating their own deaths. I cried. For two days. I’m actually hesitant about seeing the movie because I don’t want to go through the trauma again. My 14-year-old son read TFIOS recently and said, “It was well written.” He’s a John Green fan, and I shared TFIOS with him because he tends to ponder things at great length, much like the main characters. But he didn’t like it. I think it disturbed him a little, although he won’t admit it. He does NOT want to see the movie.
It’s sad.
- There’s a lot of deep stuff going on. Hazel and Augustus ask big questions like, “What kind of mark do I want to leave on the world?” and “How do I want people to remember me?” and “Why are scrambled eggs only served for breakfast?” It will take a mature reader/ movie goer to grasp all the themes and meanings Mr. Green has weaved into his story. And Augustus likes to use big words. For example:
I was, like, the prototypical Hoosier kid… all about resurrecting the lost art of the midrange jumper, but then one day… I couldn’t figure out why I was methodically tossing a spherical object through a toroidal object.
See what I mean?
- There is one sexual encounter, tactfully written. I’m actually not as concerned about that as I am about the deeper meanings going unappreciated.
Personally, I don’t think this book/movie is for tweens, not because of “the scene”, but because when my daughter reads/sees it, I want her to really get it. What a waste to go through all that sad and not understand the humor and beauty too.
Have I missed anything? What else should people know about TFIOS? Do you plan on seeing the movie?
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Julia












