Meditations on Gratitude

Wondrous Words Wednesday

Would it be awful for me to suggest that Thanksgiving is about more than turkey and mashed potatoes? Or Christmas shopping?  On this Wondrous Words Wednesday, which also happens to be Thanksgiving Eve, a few thoughts on the importance of gratitude.

In his TED Talk, Benedictine Monk David Steindl-Rast suggests that grateful people are happy people.  He says we can’t be grateful about everything (especially not things like violence, oppression, and poverty) but we can choose gratitude in every moment.  According to Steindl-Rast, if we seize life’s opportunities for thankfulness, we will find contentment.

His words echo the message of Ann VosKamp’s inspirational book One Thousand Gifts. VosKamp implores her readers to practice eucharisteo, or thanksgiving.

Gratitude

A quick look at word etymology proves that there’s more than just a philosophical link between gratitude and happiness.

  • gratitude: noun, from Medieval Latin gratitudo, from Latin gratus grateful; that state of being grateful; thankfulness.
  • Eucharist: noun from Greek eucharistos grateful, from eu + charizesthai to show favor, from charis favor, grace; akin to Greek chairein to rejoice.

Did you follow the links from gratitude to grateful to eucharist to rejoice?

Can you make those connections in your own life, follow the path from gratitude to joy in the opportunities that come your way amidst the shopping and baking and packing and traveling this week?

I encourage you to try.  I know I will.

Word Nerd Workout

What do you think of the statement:

Grateful people are happy people.

Can happiness really be that easy?

Share your thoughts in the comments, and Happy Thanksgiving.  Don’t forget to check out the Wondrous Words at Kathy’s blog.

Julia

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Five Young Adult Books You Should Read

I’ve been on a YA binge. Miraculously, despite swim meets, cross-country practice, and soccer tournaments, I finished FIVE YA novels this fall. Another bonus? They were all good. Since I write YA contemporary, I read it too, and these books fall into that category.  I bet you’ll find something to like here.

Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson

speakHigh school freshman Melinda doesn’t have anyone to talk to. Her former friends hate her, her parents don’t understand her, and her teachers annoy her, except for Mr. Freeman, her art teacher. Unfortunately, Melinda has something very important to say, if only she can find the courage.

With raw and eloquent language, Melinda’s story depicts the trauma of sexual assault. The rape, which happens in a  realistic scenario, is described in terms of Melinda’s reactions to what is happening to her and isn’t graphic.

This book is hard, but it’s also important. Every teenage girl should read it, as well as boys. In the notes at the back of the novel, Anderson reveals that she has received several letters from young men who enjoyed the book but couldn’t understand why Melinda was so upset about what happened to her. That’s frightening. Teens need to know that sexual assault is not okay, and that they shouldn’t be ashamed to speak about it.

The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks by E. Lockhart

Frankie Landau BanksIf you need comic relief after Speak, spend a little time with Frankie.  E. Lockhart wrote the YA thriller We Were Liars, but before that, she wrote many funny novels. This is one of them.

Everyone sees Frankie as “adorable”. Her family calls her “bunny rabbit” for Pete’s sake. During her sophomore year at the upscale Alabaster Boarding School, Frankie proves that she’s capable of more than just “cuteness”. Pranks unfold on a grand scale at Alabaster, including the hilarious “In the Ladies We Trust” caper, and no one suspects Frankie.

But they should.

Frankie is a fantastic heroine: witty, determined, and daring.  She’s also a word nerd and the creator of “neglected positives”**.  I highly recommend Frankie for a fun read with a good message- don’t let people underestimate you.  No serious content here- just some drinking.

**Word Nerd Note on Frankie’s neglected positives:  Prefixes like “in”, “non”, and “dis” make words negative.  Take away the prefix and you have a “word” that means something positive.  For example, disgruntled (unhappy) changes to gruntled (happy); inept (incompetent) changes to ept (capable).  None of this is grammatically valid, but it is fun, yes?

Since You’ve Been Gone by Morgan Matson

since you've been goneEmily’s best friend Sloane disappears at the beginning of the summer, leaving nothing behind except a cryptic “to do” list which includes things like skinny dipping, hugging a Jamie, and dancing all night. As Emily tackles each item on Sloane’s list, she expands her initially microscopic comfort zone and finds new-found confidence in the void Sloane left behind.

I loved watching Emily break free from her dependence on Sloane and embrace new relationships. This is a great book about tackling awkwardness and rising above doubt. It’s also very PG-13, with a little bit of kissing and drinking making up the “content”.

 

Just Listen by Sarah Dessen

just listenAs a successful teen model, Annabel is a master of perfect appearances. But the truth is, her sister suffers from anorexia, her best friends have abandoned her, and something awful happened to her at a party last summer. Annabel wants to keep quiet and pretend everything is fine until she meets Owen Armstrong, a guy with anger management issues who has spent time in juvie. Owen loves honesty and music, and he uses both of them to help Annabel break out of her silence.

Like Speak, Just Listen tackles the topic of sexual assault, but it’s not as intense or dark. The same message is communicated- it’s much better to talk than keep quiet.  Just Listen also has humor and romance, which might make it more palatable to readers.

An Abundance of Katherines by John Green

abundance of katherinesColin Singleton is a mathematical prodigy who is worried he’s past his prime. He’s also been dumped by nineteen Katherines. To cure him of his break-up misery, Colin embarks on a road trip with his best friend Hassan, hoping to create a relationship formula that will explain his failure at romance.

Although Katherines is filled with classic John Green wit and humor, it’s my least favorite of his novels. I found it somewhat slow and Colin somewhat whiny. However, my kids and their friends love it. Don’t read the appendix at the back about how Colin came up with his mathematical formula unless you’re a total math nerd, like my son. There is some content, including language and sexual situations.

 

Have you read any of these books?  Or better yet, add another YA contemporary to this list and tell us why you like it!

Thanks for stopping by!

Julia

 

 

 

 

 

 

Vocab from The Glass Cage: Welter

The Glass Cage by Nicholas Carr is getting me to think!  Among many things, it asserts that by constantly using GPS to navigate our world, we are limiting our sensory interaction with our surroundings and stifling our brain power.

So, this weekend, when I needed to find a new destination, I looked at the overview in my iPhone Maps app, figured out how to get to where I needed to go all by myself, and turned off the app.  I used memory and spatial orientation to get to the address.  When I arrived successfully, I felt extremely proud.

The teenaged girls in the car with me thought I was nuts.

wondrous memeThe Glass Cage also continues to teach me new vocabulary.  If you like learning new words, visit Kathy at Bermuda Onion to see more word nerdy posts.  You can add your own word post to the meme too.

My word comes from this quote from The Glass Cage:

As automation technologies become more complicated and more interconnected, with a welter of links and dependencies among software instructions, databases, network protocols, sensors, and mechanical parts, the potential sources of failure multiply.”

I’d only heard of welter in relation to boxing; welterweight.  This is different.

welter \ˈwel-tər\ from Middle Dutch welteren to roll

  • noun:
    • a state of wild disorder
    • turmoil
    • a chaotic mass
  • intransitive verb:
    • to writhe, toss
    • to toss about in waves
    • to become deeply sunk or involved
    • to be in turmoil

Word Nerd Note: A welterweight is a boxer who weighs between a lightweight and a middleweight, up to 147 pounds

Word Nerd Workout

I think welter would be fun to use in a sentence.  Think of turmoil, and go!

The sideline was a welter of soccer bags, soccer balls, rumpled sweatshirts, and water bottles.  I had no hope for finding my son’s hat.

Thanks for “playing”!

Julia

 

 

 

 

 

 

Book Suggestions from the Goodreads Choice Awards

It’s that time of year again!

No, I’m not talking about the holidays. Actually, I’m too exhausted to even contemplate December right now. This fall kicked my butt, and I’m not sure I’ll ever get enough sleep to recover. Can you relate?

Instead, I’m talking about my favorite form of escape- books! Specifically, choosing book club books for 2016. Goodreads can help me, and you, too, if you share my predicament. My book club meets next week, and I need ideas.

Help from the Goodreads Choice Awards

Saint AnythingEvery November, Goodreads hosts the Choice Awards. Goodreads members vote for their favorite books of the year in a broad range of categories, including children’s, YA, YA Fantasy, Mystery and Thriller, Historical Fiction, Humor, and Horror. There are three rounds, with the final stage of voting set this year for November 17-23.

Usually, I’ve read only a smattering of the books that make the list, and although I vote sometimes, I primarily use the Choice Awards to help me find books to read, both for me and my kids. I didn’t know Rebecca Stead had a new book out. Now I do. I haven’t heard of most of the YA fiction titles. New books for the TBR list.

WatchmanOne title from the nominees I’d like to tackle in 2016 is Go Set a Watchman, the sequel to To Kill a Mockingbird. There was a lot of chatter about it in the literary world this summer, and since Mockingbird is one of my favorites, I feel compelled to read Watchman. Other books I’ll suggest to my book club:

  • Mr. Owita’s Guide to Gardening by Carol Wall, a non-fiction piece about finding happiness
  • I Am Malala by Malala Yousafzai, a non-fiction about a Pakistani girl who stood up for her right to an education

That’s a lot of non-fiction for me!  Better add some YA fiction to the list, like:

  • Saint Anything, by Sarah Dessen  Lately, daughter and I have been reading quite a bit from Ms. Dessen
  • Mosquitoland by David Arnold, is a modern American Odyssey, told in a “kaleidoscope voice”.

Word Nerd Workout

Help me and my book club out, please. What books are you planning to read in 2016? Has anyone read Go Set a Watchman? What did you think?

Thanks for adding to the discussion.

Julia

 

 

 

 

 

 

Vocab from The Glass Cage: Putative

Do you like non-fiction?  I struggle with it.  My book club selection this month is The Glass Cage: How Computers Are Changing Us, by Nicholas Carr.  I can only read it in small doses because it is both dry and disturbing.

Guess who suggested the club read it?  Me!

The Glass Cage has given me lots to think about as well as new vocabulary.  If you like learning about new words, check out Kathy’s Wondrous Words Wednesday meme.  Bloggers share new words from their reading or celebrate words they love.

Here’s the excerpt for my word this week:

From my putative friends, I received no sympathy.  They found my struggles [with driving a manual transmission car] a source of endless, uproarious amusement.

putative \ˈpyü-tə-tiv\ from Latin putatus, past participle of putare to think

  • commonly accepted or supposed
  • believed to exist or to have existed

Thanks Merriam-Webster!

Putative is a synonym for a word I’ve previously featured on Wondrous Words Wednesday, ostensible, which means seeming to be true or real but possibly not.

Word Nerd Workout

Can you think of another synonym for putative?

wondrous memeI’ll be sure to follow up with a review of The Glass Cage in coming weeks- hopefully I’ll get through it!  How do you feel about non-fiction?  Any good recommendations?

Thanks for stopping by!  Don’t forget to visit Kathy’s Wondrous Words Wednesday meme.

Julia

 

 

 

 

 

 

My YA Manuscript is ON THE BLOCK

5406459295My fiction writing first went public thirty years ago.  I was a freshman in high school, sweating at my desk while my English teacher read several short stories to the class, including mine, a tragic piece about a boy whose best friend committed suicide.  Fortunately, my classmates liked the story, and it made it into the school literary magazine.

Now here I am, many years later, still pulling words into something I hope resonates with readers.  Today, the first page of my young adult manuscript,  REDEFINED, is up at Miss Snark’s First Victim.   I made it into the ON THE BLOCK contest, along with 23 others, which means I’m putting my writing out there for readers and writers to critique.  On Tuesday, November 10, agents will bid on manuscripts they want to read more of.

Hopefully, if the stars fall into line and my character’s voice is strong enough and the conflict is clear enough, an agent, or maybe two, will ask to read more of my work.  It’s not a guarantee of publication, but it’s a giant step in the right direction, my work in front of agents’ eyes.

Did you know it took Kathryn Stockett five years to find an agent for The Help?  The road to publication isn’t for wimps.  Thank goodness I’m stubborn.  And I have supportive friends. 😉

Word Nerd Request

If you feel inclined, please stop by Miss Snark’s blog, read my first page, and offer a critique. My novel is a young adult contemporary, which means it’s about real kids with real problems.  It’s similar in style and content to something written by Sarah Dessen or Morgan Matson.  I won’t dare to compare myself to John Green, but there are literary references, as in his books.

Here’s the log line- publishing speak for a 1-2 sentence summary of the book.  (Do you know how hard it is to summarize a book in two sentences? )

Seventeen year old Cat craves a social life, but a neurological disease is wrecking her mom’s health and her uptight dad wants her to stay home to help.  When Cat falls for a guy who understands family weirdness, she must stand up to her overprotective father or lose the boy she loves.

Word Nerd Suggestion

If you enjoy writing, please follow Miss Snark’s blog.  She offers valuable advice and support, as well as several contests each year to help you get your work out there.

Can you recommend any other online contests or writing sites?  I’m also a big fan of K.M Weiland.

If you have any good luck mojo, please send it my way.  😉

Thanks!

Julia