A few weeks ago, my friend Nan sent me an awesome article from The Chronicle of Higher Education called “The Ideal English Major.” Of course, this word nerd, a girl who earned her English degree from the University of Virginia, loved the piece by Mark Edmundson, a professor of English at UVA. 😉
But something else struck me.
Nan didn’t send me a link in an email. She MAILED me the article. Printed it up, highlighted the sections that resonated with her, jotted down a note, and put a stamp on it. Just for me.
Wow. Nan’s gesture meant a lot; I replied with a hand written thank you note.
Fear for the future of letters
How often do you get something in your mailbox besides catalogs and advertisements? When you do get a hand written card, do you rip through that envelope first, because inside you’ll find something that someone wrote especially for you? Doesn’t it make your day?
When was the last time you sent a letter?
We live in a digital frenzy. We don’t even talk to each other any more- we just text. Last week my friend Jean laughed and said, “My iPhone is good for everything but phone calls.”
I know that everyone is busy, that sending a quick email or text is better than sending nothing at all. But we are losing something precious if we only communicate via Facebook. Take a look at these special words:



Our handwriting gives us unique identification; our handwritten words are so much more personal than typed ones. I blink away tears when I read my mom’s note. She wrote that while I was a student at UVA. By then, neurological disease made writing very difficult for her, but I can read the words, “I LOVE YOU LOTS.” Can you see them?
Mom died in 1996. But I still have her words. I keep them in the top drawer of my night stand, along with other cherished “hard copy” snippets from my life.
Why we should write more letters
We can’t let handwritten notes become obsolete; here’s why:
- Handwritten letters show that you care. It takes effort, time, and thoughtfulness to compose a few lines, find a stamp, and visit a mail box. But aren’t your friends and family worth that?
- Handwritten notes are physical reminders of affection. That note from my mom is a treasure; I’m so glad I kept it. When I travel away from home, I usually leave a note for my kids on their bed. It’s a piece of me they can tuck under their pillow until I return.
- Handwritten notes last. Think of everything we’ve gleaned about history from letters. How will future generations learn about us? I doubt that anyone is archiving Facebook. How will we leave our mark on the world if our words can be clicked away by the delete button?
Word Nerd Workout
I don’t usually do this in my Friday posts, but I challenge you to a workout: write a note to someone and mail it. Today. I’ll do it too.
Do you fear for the future of letters? Do you write notes to the people you love?
Thanks,
Julia












