Why it’s important to read The Kite Runner

Banned Books Week graphic

My friend Lynne asked at our last book club meeting, “Should I let my daughter read The Kite Runner?” 
Lynne’s daughter is 15, intelligent, and well read.
 
But I remembered one especially brutal scene in The Kite Runner.  Everything else in the book points to it or leads from it, so it’s not something one could skip to avoid being disturbed.

I told Lynne no.

Then I saw The Kite Runner on the banned book list on ALA’s website, and I decided to look at it again.  As I flipped through the opening pages, I remembered why I enjoyed it so much.

Why It’s Great

In The Kite Runner, Khaled Hosseini  tells the story of a man haunted by his childhood.  The opening lines read:

I became what I am today at the age of twelve, on a frigid overcast day in the winter of 1975… That was a long time ago, but it’s wrong what they say about the past, I’ve learned, about how you can bury it.  Because the past claws its way out.

Hosseini vividly describes the tumultuous world of Afghanistan in the late 20th century.  He effectively brings us into a setting so different from America by describing it through the voice of a boy.   Amir experiences emotions we can identify with.  He loves and fears his father, and pines for his approval.  He struggles with jealousy, loyalty, and worst of all, bullies.  One in particular, who worships Hitler, will irrevocably change Amir’s life. 
Throughout all of this, Hosseini weaves the consistent theme of the power of words, the relevance of stories.  His writing is easy to read, yet potent, making it a valuable book.
Hosseini dedicated his book to the children of Afghanistan

Why It’s Controversial

The ALA site reports challenges to The Kite Runner for language and violence.  And yes, it has legitimate examples of both.  By page seven, a main character is assaulted with profanity and obscene gestures.  But, importantly, Hosseini shows how the insults hurt the character; we empathize with his pain.  
The critical scene of the book comes a few chapters later.  Hosseini masterfully describes an act of brutality that one human being imposes on another.  We stand in a cold alley with Amir and watch.  Fear runs through our veins too.
There’s other violence: murders, suicides, war.  But those things happen in Afghanistan and many other parts of the world, and we shouldn’t hide from them.  But do children need to know?  I want to protect my kids as long as possible from learning that bad guys really do exist.  That evil does hold a place in the world.
But by the time kids are in high school, they are learning about the atrocities of World War II.  Most know life isn’t a fairy tale.  They could benefit from learning about the conflicts of the Middle East.

Does it have a place in the classroom or school library?

Honestly, until a few weeks ago, I thought The Kite Runnerwas strictly an adult book.  But I can see potential for learning.  A high school teacher could compliment this book with units on Afghanistan, the Middle East, or Islam.  Reading The Kite Runner could help high school students make sense of the headlines and video clips they see on the news.  It could inspire appreciation for the stability and security we enjoy as Americans.  Most of all, students could learn from Amir’s faults and vow not to repeat his mistakes.
Amir’s father says: “A boy who won’t stand up for himself becomes a man who can’t stand up to anything.”
A worthy sentiment to ponder in any country, at any time, don’t you agree?  Leave your comments below.

So Lynne, I’d let her read it.  But warn her: it can be brutal.  And of course, talk about the book with her.

Note:  Khaled Hosseini has released The Kite Runner as a graphic novel , a format that might be more palatable to reluctant readers.



For more reviews of banned books and giveaways, see Book Journey.


Book Week Giveaway

This week, in honor of the books I love, I am offering a giveaway of one of the following.  All of them have faced challenges or bans in the past few decades, as reported by the ALA website.  All have also been reads I’ve thoroughly enjoyed, as a child and an adult:

  • To Kill a Mockingbird
  • A Wrinkle in Time
  • The Giver
  • The Outsiders
  • The Kite Runner
  • Bridge to Terebithia
  • I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings

How to win?

  • The winner will be picked at random from comments on this post and my vocabulary post on expurgated.   
  • Comments must be made by Oct 8.  The winner will be announced Oct 9 in my vocab post.
  • The giveaway is open to anywhere that Amazon ships.

Julia

The Perfect Vocab Word for Banned Book Week: Expurgated

Last Week’s Quiz Winners

Wow!  I’m happy that so many word nerds turned up for last week’s vocabulary quiz!  I had six winners!  Yippee!  (Next month, maybe I should make a harder quiz…  J)  I’m especially excited to have some new word nerds joining in the fun.  Congratulations to:

I recommended both of these blogs in my post on how to find good book blogs.  Cheers also to:

  • Laura Howard from Finding Bliss, where you can find helpful tips on writing.
  • Susan Stilwell from Blogmama Susan (blogging tips) and I Hope for Him (inspiration)
  • Jane Butler from My Own Personal Sky, where you can find Jane’s thoughts on childhood, parenthood, and seizing the moment.
  • Monique Liddle from Bends in the Road, offering helpful tips for life’s unexpected road blocks.
Enthusiastic *applause* for Monique, a two time winner, and Susan, a three time winner!

This Week’s New Word

Banned Book Week began yesterday, and it has sparked a flurry of commentary in the blogosphere.  While I was reading Jennifer Hartling’s post on BBW, I learned a lot about both sides of the argument, as well as a great new vocabulary word!  Adam from Roof Beam Reader commented that recently an expurgated edition of Mark Twain’s The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn had been published, with all of the offensive language removed. 

First I thought, you can’t alter literature!  That would be like covering up part of a Picasso!
Then I thought, what a great word!

expurgate \’ek-spər-gāt\  verb, from Latin ex + purgare to purge; to cleanse of something morally harmful, offensive, or erroneous, especially to expunge objectionable content before publication or presentation. 

Word Nerd Workout

Use expurgate/expurgated in a sentence to describe your thoughts on the alteration of books.  Would you prefer to read a book that does not have offensive language?  Is this as simple as the difference between “clean” and “dirty” versions of songs?  How do you think altering an author’s words infringes on creative expression?  I wonder what Mark Twain would have to say about this new version of his book.

Banned Book Week Giveaway

This week, in honor of the books I love, I am offering a giveaway of one of the following.  All of them have faced challenges or bans in the past few decades, as reported by the ALA website.  All have also been reads I’ve thoroughly enjoyed, as a child and an adult:

  • To Kill a Mockingbird
  • A Wrinkle in Time
  • The Giver
  • The Outsiders
  • The Kite Runner
  • Bridge to Terebithia
  • I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings

How to win?

  • The winner will be picked at random from comments on this post and my post reviewing The Kite Runner, to appear Friday Oct. 5. 
  • Comments must be made by Oct 8.  The winner will be announced Oct 9 in my vocab post.
  • The giveaway is open to anywhere that Amazon ships.
Easy, right?  Now, share your thoughts on expurgated books below!  Thanks for stopping by!

Julia

Why You Shouldn’t Be Scared to Read Stephen King’s 11/22/63

Please welcome my guest, Amy Makechnie.  You can find Amy’s thoughtful and entertaining posts on reading, writing, running, and motherhood at Maisymak.  I think you’ll love her funny, yet insightful, voice.  Take it away Amy…


Stephen King  and I didn’t start off on the right foot.
I was ten years old and, for some reason, was allowed to watch The Shining on Sunday night television. I sat in rapt horror the entire two hours and then had nightmares about “redrum” for the next ten years.
This is classic King; there is no doubt he will scare the pants off you.
At age 15, I picked up King’s first book, Carrie.  It was so disturbing I threw it across the room and made a vow that never again would King enter my reading world.
This vow lasted 20 years until On Writing made an appearance.  Hesitantly, I began to read, and then absolutely devoured.
Then King surprised me by writing the novel 11/22/63, the date of the assassination of President John F. Kennedy.  A divergent from his other works, 11/22/63 still became a New York Times Bestseller, like every other book he’s written.
How does he do it?
There is a quote from 11/22/63 that Jake Epping, the main character, narrates:

“In my life as a teacher, I used to hammer away at the idea of simplicity…there’s only one question and one answer.  What happened?  The reader asks.  This is what happened, the writer responds.  This…and this…and this, too.  Keep it simple.  It’s the only sure way home.  So I’ll try, although you must always keep in mind that in Derry, reality is a thin skim of ice over a deep lake of dark water.” 

    King can tell a story.  Line upon line he builds, until one detail is many, many details that all come together to deliver an almost spellbinding page-turner…you must find out what happens! 
    Though a whopping 842 pages long, 11/22/63 not only focuses on the assassination, but also many subplots, some more gruesome than others (King apparently just couldn’t help himself).
    The novel begins with Jake Epping, an English teacher in Maine, finding a portal in a diner.  He goes back in time to 1958, falls dangerously in love, and meets a troubled loner by the name of Lee Oswald.
    Based on thousands of facts that King personally read or tracked down with his assistant, Russell Dorr, 11/22/63 is fiction, but historically accurate.  And for me, that’s what made it such a fascinating read.  For instance, King might not know what specific conversations Oswald had with his neighbor, but we do know he bought a rifle and brought it to that second story window. We do know he had a fight with his wife the day before the shooting.  We do know that people really said, ‘gee whiz’ in 1960.

    11/22/63 hammers at these questions…If you could change the past,   Would you?  And, even if you could change it, should you?

    We come to see, that for every small and seemingly minute action we make, there is a much larger and potentially unwanted, future consequence.
    King writes, “The past is obdurate.  It doesn’t like to change.”  (That’s a good word for the Word Nerds!)
    The descriptions are masterful:  “An empty barn on the outskirts of town, the hayloft door swinging slowly open and closed on rusty hinges, first disclosing darkness, then hiding it, then disclosing it again.”
    Does Jake try to stop the assassination?  Should he?  Certainly in our reality, the president died, but in our fictional world?  You’ll have to read and find out!

    As for my truce with Stephen King, I may not be able to read the majority of his books without serious “imagination issues,” but let there be no doubt of my admiration for this extremely talented and hardworking craftsman.

    Amy Nelson Makechnie is the mother of four children and doesn’t deny that she occasionally shuts herself in her room to devour books.  She’s a contributing freelance writer for Deseret News, KSL, and has exactly six paragraphs appearing in an upcoming book on motherhood by powerofmoms.com.  She is in the final editing stage of an adult fiction novel and the author of the blog Maisymak.  She loves visitors!

    Julia

    Who’s Ready to Test Their Vocab Knowledge?

    It’s that time again!

    As I walked the dog this morning, the frost on the grass sparkled in the light of the rising sun.
    Fall has arrived.
    So has cooler weather.
    September is almost over…
    Which means, time for another quiz!
    Test your Word Nerd skills with the questions below.  Those who get all correct answers will earn link love from me, as well as kind acknowledgements in the world of Twitter and Facebook.  Don’t be shy, join in!
    Word Nerd Workout
    1. Would you like your daughter’s fifth grade teacher to be salacious or sagacious?  Pick one.
    2. Which of these words comes from a Latin root meaning “story”?
      1. mellifluous
      2. pedantic
      3. confabulation
    3. If a plant has vespertine blooms, that means that its blossoms appear
      1. At evening
      2. When sun hits them
      3. Only in shade

    Leave your answers in the comments section; I can’t wait to hear from you.  I hope you learn something new today!
    Did you like this quiz?  Take another!

    Julia

    Why Banned Book Week Has Me Thinking

    The buzz about Banned Book Week has begun, even though officially the week doesn’t start until September 30th.  Search the topic, and you’ll find websites, readings, and other events to promote books that have been banned or restricted from schools.   
    At first I thought, “What’s the big deal?”  Then I saw the lists of titles that have been challenged and/or banned.

    You won’t believe this list!

    I expected to find Huckleberry Finn, but not so many of my favorite reads, including:
    • Harry Potter
    • Bridge to Terebithia
    • To Kill a Mockingbird
    • I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings
    • A Wrinkle in Time
    • The Outsiders

    I had to learn more.

    Why are books banned or challenged?

    According to the American Library Association website, groups or individuals request restrictions on books with the intention to protect children.  Frequently, complaints are made based on offensive language or sexual content.  For example, To Kill a Mockingbird uses “the n word”.  Holden Caulfield swears his way through Catcher in the Rye.  But why Harry Potter?  If Ron swears, I don’t know it (I’m not up to date on my English cursing- can someone please tell me what “bloody” equates to in American English?).  I’m guessing HP makes the list because of the whole sorcery business.

    Now I’m upset about banned books too

    I’m a conservative mother, and I vigorously filter content.  My 12 year old hasn’t read The Hunger Games yet because I think its themes too violent and disturbing.  However, this information about banned books has me riled up.  I limit exposure to racy pop songs and violent TV shows because the whole point is sensationalism.  But Harper Lee didn’t use the language in To Kill a Mockingbird to promote sales; she used it to describe attitudes and perceptions about prejudice.   
    So now I wonder, how can I think that offensive content in books is acceptable when I don’t tolerate it in other media?  I’ve come up with three main reasons:
    • Inherent value– Does the book offer something relevant that overshadows the offensive material?  For all of the titles I’ve listed above, YES!  If the book as a whole explores relevant themes or issues, I can’t condemn it for a few ugly words or scenes. 
    • Audience–  Is the group reading the book mature enough to handle the content?  Books like To Kill A Mockingbird and The Chocolate War tackle difficult topics- racism, abuse, sexuality, bullys.  Do they belong in an elementary school library?  Probably not.  But can they be used with older students?  Yes.  See next point.
    • Accessibility–  Not all kids have word nerds for parents.  Or money to buy books.  So if they don’t read these books in school, they may never see them.  And that would be sad.  Well written literature can trigger insightful classroom discussions.   If the “n word” offends, let’s discuss why it offends. 

    Honestly, I have reservations about some of the books on the list, like Beloved.  When I read it, Toni Morrison shoved me into the shackles of slavery; I could feel the raised scars from whips on my back.  After one disturbing sexual scene, I closed the book and refused to pick it up again.  But I felt the horror of slavery more than I ever had before.  There’s value to that.
    Here’s what it comes down to.  As a mother, I must look out for the best interests of each of my children.  So it’s my job, not the government’s, to monitor the books my kids open.   (Tweet this if you agree!)
    Should I have the right to decide what your child reads?  No. 
    Whew, this is a tough topic!  I welcome your response in the comments below.  Come back during Banned Book Week (Oct 5) when I’ll post a review of The Kite Runner, a challenged title.  If you leave a comment on that post, you could win a free book off of the banned list!  If you are a blogger and want to post something on Banned Books Week, join the celebration with Book Journey

    Julia

    Why You Should Look Words Up: Confabulation

    Sometimes your gut instinct about a word’s meaning isn’t right, and you need to check the dictionary.  Or Google.
    Salacious had tricked me a few weeks ago.  Based on the context, I thought it meant “obnoxious.”  Well, that wasn’t exactly right.  Glad I looked it up!  (Do you know what it means?  Learn more about salacious.)
    Here’s another word that fooled me: confabulation.  When one of my friends used this in conversation, I thought it meant “a lie.”  I was focusing on the “fab” part, as in “fabricate”. 

    This week’s Word Nerd Word

    confabulation \kən-,fab-yə-‘lā-shən\ noun, from Latin com together + fabulari to talk, from fabulastory;  a discussion, casual conversation;

    also from psychology: the replacement of a gap in a person’s memory by a falsification that he or she believes to be true

    I wasn’t completely off with the fabrication idea, but I’m glad I took the time to look the word up and learn the subtle meanings.

    Word Nerd Workout

    Use confabulation in a sentence.  My example:

    After Gretchen slipped and fell in the middle of the lunchroom, confabulation about her mishap spread throughout the school. 

    This actually happened, but fortunately, Gretchen has a great sense of humor. 
    Your turn!  Leave your sentence in the comments below, and thanks for stopping by!

    Other Word Nerd Words:

    Julia