A Poem for Your Pocket 2018

We need to read more poetry.  The collections of words and rhythms that we call poems force us to appreciate beauty, to stop and think.  Here’s what the current U.S. poet laureate, Tracy K. Smith, says on the matter:

Poetry surprises and deepens our sense of the ordinary. Poetry tells us that the world is full of wonder, revelation, consolation, and meaning.

I agree!  Today, April 26, 2018, is Poem in Your Pocket Day, and I’ve got a short poem to deepen your sense of the ordinary.  Please read it, enjoy it, ponder its meaning, and pass it along to someone else.

The Balloon of the Mind by W.B. Yeats

Hands, do what you’re bid:

Bring the balloon of the mind

That bellies and drags in the wind

Into its narrow shed.

Poem in Your Pocket Day is part of the National Poetry Month activities sponsored by The American Academy of Poets.  Every April, The Academy encourages parents, teachers, and librarians to engage in poetic pursuits.   You can find more poems, including a downloadable PDF of short poems, at poets.org.  Leave a few poems around your home or work place, put them in notes in your kids’ lunchboxes, or write them in chalk on the sidewalk.  Whatever it takes to bring more poetry into the world!

I chose “Balloon of the Mind” because it is short and captures how I often feel, that my mind is a wondering thing that I must learn to contain.  What do you think of the poem?

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Why I Loved “Born a Crime”

When I saw Trevor Noah, host of “The Daily Show”, do a comedy bit about President Trump, I loved his humor, but I couldn’t figure out his accent. Turns out Noah is a native of South Africa and the author of a memoir, Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood. During Apartheid in South Africa, it was illegal for whites and non-whites to intermingle. Since Noah was born to a black mother and a white father, he was literally born a crime, and this status had a profound affect on his early life.

Premise

Born a Crime, narrated by Noah himself for Audible, is a funny, poignant, and informative description of Noah’s childhood during the end and aftermath of Apartheid. I listened to it shortly after watching Invictus, the story of how Nelson Mandela tried to unite his fractured country behind the South African rugby team. Since I didn’t know much about South Africa or Apartheid, Invictus raised many questions. Born A Crime answered a lot of them.

What I liked

Noah is an excellent story teller, and hearing him talk about his childhood in his accented voice added authenticity I would have missed if I read the print version. He is fluent in many languages, and throughout the book he includes snippets of those languages. Hearing him speak them brought me closer to the culturally diverse world in South Africa.  If I were reading the book, I probably would have skimmed over the foreign phrases.

Noah tackles tough subjects in his memoir: prejudice, poverty, and abuse, but he balances the dark topics with humor, keeping the book from becoming too depressing. I loved hearing about his relationship with his mother, a fascinating woman of great strength and religious conviction, and how that evolved as he grew up.

He does an excellent job of explaining the culture of South Africa. His tells the history of the different tribal groups in South Africa, and why there was so much violence after Mandela became president. He describes the conflicts between the different races of people- whites, blacks, and coloreds- and why he had a hard time fitting in with any one of those groups. He tells how South African people name their children and how he and his friend Hitler, an excellent dancer, unwittingly caused outrage during a cultural presentation at a Jewish school.

What I didn’t like

Very little. At times, Noah relies on cliché too much to describe the events in his life, and his reactions to them, but this is a picky criticism.

Recommendation

Born a Crime is a great listen if you want to learn more about the culture of South Africa, or if you just want to be entertained. I plan on suggesting this book to my older children to help them gain a broader perspective of the world. I highly recommend listening to it.

Notes on content

Born a Crime has some foul language and touches on mature themes, such as physical abuse, incarceration, and pornography. Tender ears and eyes beware!

Have you read Born a Crime? What did you think? Can you suggest another interesting memoir?

Happy reading

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Story Behind the Baguette

We eat a lot of bread in our house. I’ve got four kids, and it’s a cheap way to fill them up. 😉 The other night, while my youngest chewed on what he calls “the butt” (or end) of a baguette, he asked, “What does baguette mean, anyway?” Turns out, baguette means wand, baton, or stick, and the name refers to the bread’s shape. Although this name seems straightforward, the story behind how the baguette got its name is more complicated

According to the website Bonjour Paris, there are several interesting theories or legends behind the naming of the baguette.

Bread has always been a main part of the French diet. At the time of the French Revolution, many Parisians complained that they were tired of seeing the wealthy eat loaves of fluffy white bread while they had to chew on dark, less tasty loaves. The lack of palatable bread, and the inequality it symbolized, was a main contributor to the French Revolution. In 1793, when the new government was established, it passed a law stating that all bakers make one type of bread that all Parisians would enjoy… “The Bread of Equality”.  Which was, most likely, the fluffy, white baguette.

Another legend says Napoleon passed a law requiring bread be made in long, slender loaves that could easily fit in the uniform pockets of his soldiers.

Another story tells of the unrest that went on among workers building the Paris metro. In those days, everyone carried a knife to cut their bread, but the knives contributed to the violence. So the supervisor of the metro workers asked a bakery to make loaves that could easily be torn, so his workers wouldn’t need to carry knives.

Nineteenth century visitors to Paris described women on the streets in the early morning carrying six-foot long loaves of bread on their backs. Or restaurants stacking six to eight foot loaves in the corner like firewood. Around 1920, the size of the baguette shrank to what we see today, probably because labor laws decreased the hours bakers could work and created the need for bread that took less time to bake.

Word Nerd Workout

Are you hungry yet?  Go out and buy a baguette (or two, if you have lots of kids like me), and share this interesting bread history at the dinner table tonight!  Do you know another interesting back story for a food you enjoy? Please share!

Don’t forget to visit Kathy at Bermuda Onion for the WWW meme!

Also, if you like learning about words and their meanings, visit Kathy at Bermuda Onion for Wondrous Words Wednesday, a meme in which bloggers share new words they’ve learned or words they love.

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Why You Should Read America’s First Daughter

Historical fiction is not my favorite, so when I find a book in this genre that I like, I share it!  America’s First Daughter, by Stephanie Dray and Laura Kamoie, is a fascinating novel that explores the life of Thomas Jefferson’s oldest daughter Patsy.

At first, I worried about reading America’s First Daughter.  I am a graduate of Jefferson’s University, a frequent visitor of Monticello, and an avid admirer of Jefferson’s intellect, curiosity, and ingenuity.  I know he had flaws, but I feared the novel would irrevocably tarnish my opinion of him.  It didn’t.  It did, however, give me a more accurate portrait of this Founding Father and the contradictions and challenges that colored his life.

The Story

America’s First Daughter opens in 1781 with the Jeffersons fleeing their family home at Monticello to avoid capture by British soldiers. A few chapters later, Jefferson’s wife Martha becomes gravely ill, and before she dies, she begs Jefferson to never remarry and tells her oldest daughter Patsy to take care of her father.  At the tender age of 10, Patsy inherits the enormous responsibility of holding the Jefferson family together and protecting her father’s reputation.  This unusual position brought Patsy a lifetime of burden as well as privilege.

What I Liked

  • Every chapter begins with a snippet of a letter.  We know so much about Jefferson because he kept detailed notes and wrote many letters.  One such snippet, written by Jefferson in April 1820, reveals the inner conflict of the man who wrote the Declaration of Independence and who also depended on slavery for his livelihood:

There’s not a man on earth who’d sacrifice more than I would, to relieve us from slavery, in any practicable way.  But, as it is, we have the wolf by the ear, and we can neither hold him, nor safely let him go.  Justice is in one scale, and self-preservation in the other.

  • I learned a lot about history.  For example, I never realized that British troops threatened Monticello or that Jefferson suffered criticism for fleeing.  I also never realized the link, both timely and philosophically, between the American and French Revolutions.
  • Patsy Jefferson’s story is fascinating.  Jefferson gave her some access to and influence in the world of politics, unlike most women of her time.  And yet, she still faced enormous challenges serving her father both in public and private life while still managing a family that had many of its own problems.  Her father was the “author of independence” and yet she often felt trapped.  She says,

“… I never would have a say, because in the world…, men did as they pleased and women were left to simply accept the consequences.”

  • Since I’ve been to Monticello many times, I enjoyed reading about events that took place in the house.    I’ve stood in Jefferson’s office and other rooms at Monticello and could easily visualize scenes from the novel.  For a floor plan and photos of the rooms, visit the Monticello website.
  • I knew that Jefferson died in debt, but I never realized that it was largely because he was generous to a fault.  He took his role as public servant seriously and entertained a constant stream of visitors at Monticello.  He also took on debt to help and protect his extended family.

What I Didn’t Like

At times, the narrative felt slow, and it took me a while to finish the book.  That might stem from my lack of enthusiasm for historical fiction as well as my current state of fatigue. Also, at times the wording sounded melodramatic.  However, the authors used notes and letters from the time to replicate authentic speech for their characters.

My new view of Jefferson

America’s First Daughter deepened my understanding of Jefferson’s life and character.  The things I love about this great man remain, but he was by no means perfect.

On the issue of slavery, no one can deny the paradox of a man who wrote “all men are created equal” yet kept slaves.  Jefferson was a child of Virginia and believed wealth and stability were found in owning land.  He, like many Virginia landowners, considered slavery a necessary evil.  However, other Virginians, including his son-in-law Tom Randolph and close associate William Short, abhorred slavery and took steps to abolish it.  While Jefferson manumitted (released) several of his slaves, he always owned some, a troubling fact.

On the issue of his slave Sally Hemmings, DNA evidence suggests that Jefferson fathered several children with Hemmings.  His affair with her probably began several years after his wife’s death, when he was serving in France.  Hemmings was actually the half-sister of his wife Martha.  (Martha’s father had relations with one of his slaves, and Sally Hemmings was his daughter and apparently looked a lot like Martha.)  According to the book, it was not unheard of for men to have slaves as concubines or for wives to find slaves for their husbands so they wouldn’t have to bear too many children.  Nevertheless, the relationship is troubling on many levels, especially when one considers the power Jefferson held over Hemmings since he owned her and that she was close to his daughter’s age.  Patsy Jefferson spent great effort protecting her father from this scandal, however he faced criticism for it in the press.  In fact, Jefferson had many critics in his day, for the Hemmings scandal and other issues, something I never realized.

Recommendation

America’s First Daughter is a great read if you are interested in historical fiction, the Founding Fathers, or the role of women in the 18th and 19th centuries.  And if you are a Thomas Jefferson fan, don’t shy away from the opportunity to learn more about him.

Have you read America’s First Daughter or other books about Jefferson?  What did you learn?

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How Do You Pronounce Ciabatta?

A friend of mine packs yummy looking sandwiches for his son’s lunch. The bread is square and thick, golden on top, and looks delicious with a little ham, cheese, and lettuce tucked inside. I asked him where he found it. (In our little town, we only have Food Lion and Wal-Mart for grocery shopping, and neither one stocks exotic food.) He said it’s ciabatta bread, and he found it in the Wal-Mart bakery.

Wal-Mart? Who knew!

I’ve had this bread before, at fancier bakeries and restaurants , but I was never sure how to pronounce it. My friend called it “key-a-batta”. I thought it might be “che- batta” or “che-a-batta”.  My 14-year-old grew weary of my pondering and said, “Mom, just look it up.”

And so, once again, Merriam-Webster helped me clear up this word nerdy confusion, and I will pass on this knowledge to you!

Photo credit: Rebecca Siegel via Flickr CC-BY

Ciabatta \ chə-ˈbä-tə \ Italian, literally translates “slipper”;  a flat oblong bread having a moist interior and a crispy crust

So, when you want to find this delicious bread, ask for ciabatta (pronounced cha-ba-ta).

Word Nerd Workout

Do you enjoy a good ciabatta sandwich? Are there other foody words that give you trouble? Please share. And now I need a snack. 😉

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What Can We Learn from March Madness?

compete: to strive together

My bracket is in shambles, and this March is the maddest I can remember.  My beloved number one ‘Hoos have earned the spotlight once again, this time for a historic loss after a historically successful season.  They are the only number one seed to lose in the first round of the NCAA basketball tournament. 🙁

As Tony Bennett, head coach for the Virginia Cavaliers, pointed out in a press conference after the loss, “Good basketball knows no divisions, no limits.  If you play this game, and you step into the arena, this stuff can happen.”   And that’s what I love about competition: it shows us, with stark and sometimes painful clarity, what we have mastered and what we still need to work on.  If you have the guts to compete, you’d better be prepared to fail, but a good competitor doesn’t let one game or race or match define him or her.  A wise competitor embraces every success and failure as a chance to get better.

So, what are the lessons Virginia, UNC, and the other upset teams have learned at the hands of schools like UMBC and Buffalo?  Things every good competitor knows: believe in the impossible, show up to play every time, and never give up, no matter how many seconds are on the clock.  Sometimes, even the best competitors forget those things, or fail to execute, and get burned.  There are lessons in those burns.

Especially during exciting sports events like the NCAA Tournament, people use “battle language” to discuss competition, choosing verbs like beat, destroy, and clobber to describe how athletes perform.  But the word “compete” comes from a very different place.  Compete derives from the Latin competere, to seek together, which comes from the Latin com- + petere to come together, agree, to go to.  Competition in any arena, be it the basketball court or the classroom or the office, affords us the opportunity to strive together, with our teammates and opponents, to become better.

My daughter’s swim coach once told a roomful of parents, “Success and failure in athletics are fleeting, but habits and attitudes last a lifetime.”  Our society is obsessed with success and shies away from failure, but in the end, losses teach us much more than wins, and we shouldn’t dwell on either outcome too long.  A good competitor, and coach, always thinks about the next thing to work on, the next challenge to overcome.  I’m sure Tony Bennett is doing that right now.

Yes, the Madness has been extra crazy this year, but quite frankly, it’s more fun to watch.  So, forget the brackets and enjoy the spectacle of the arena, where perseverance is rewarded, adulation is tempered with humility, and everyone strives together toward something better.  Let’s go Loyola!

Are you caught up in March Madness?  What have you learned this year?

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!